discombobulated Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 ALRIGHT, Im gona try to make this short. I wished my ex a happy b-day, and it went well. He then said that he was about to come home from Ohio within a week. About a week later, he invited me to a jazz show, and I was ecstatic!!! I was thinking ,.....ah yes, he is finally caving in lol. That emotion soon came to rest when I showed up. I invited my very opinionated sister as a support system in case he decided to be a jerk. As soon as my sister and I showed up at this event, to the right of me was the ex'es folks and a blondie. MIND YOU, he was never into blondies or piercings, or tattoos, or cottage cheese thighs...but she had it. I almost crapped my pants, but was reminded from my violent support system to chill out! I arrived dolled-up and looked to the right of me, where he and my eyes met. There was a rush of happiness in both eyes, but it was severely awkward that he tried to kiss and hug me. :love:KISS AND HUG ME, i went in for the side cheek kiss and sorta evaded a hug worried that his new gf would feel threatened or that id break down molest him jk lol. He said I looked great, i said that his hat was new lol. He wore the t-shirt that I always said I loved on him. Then his mother introduced this young lady to me, I must admit she was so sweet, that it hurt my feelings to pass judgement. I ran into several friends of mine introduced my sis, we sat for a while, the ex came by to chat, but it was waaay to loud so he went outside. I said id meet him outside to chat some, but when I went outside, he was chatting it up with everyone and I ended up chatting with his ma. It ended up being a rat race. The girl that acompanied him seemed too distant to be an item of his. SO I went home, cried walking home, listening to my sister bash and bash away at him. He never said bye to me, nor did he even make time for me. I was DEVASTATED! :confused:On the way home, I had to meditate and realize that hes moved on. I then texted him, he never replied. I called him and asked why he invited me,he sai "I" asked to see him...when he truly said he wanted to see me. Then I said it caught me off guard that he brought his new gf. he said it was his guy friends girl. SOOOoo what relief! The issue is now I wana see him and talk to him in person, but he insists that I call him when hes back in Ohio. Why would he do that? GUYS WHY??????!!!
Cloudberry Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 You never know what kind of games people play. Maybe he really is sort-of with her, and he wanted to make both of you jealous? Don't call him.
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