hairdiva09 Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 I have so many questions and feelings, I don't know where to start. I am currently dating a good guy for the past few yeas, but we have come across some bumpy roads recently. We are both college students, I have a part time job and he was just laid off from his job (due to the economy). We have been bumping heads more than I would like and this is starting to bother me. Issue #1: Recently, I have been doing some "snooping" because I was curious on what his ex-girlfriend (who is also the mother of his wonderful daughter) looks like (they live in another state...). Anyway, I guess you should never search information that you may not be prepared to see because I saw that his ex was extremely beautiful (I found her on classmates.com) It showed pics of her and her new husband, their elaborate wedding at a Catholic Church and so on... Should I be jealous that she got away, had more children and is now in a wonderful marriage with someone else??? Should I feel bad because my boyfriend is in a bad position while the ex and the new hubby has a nice life??? Issue#2: My sister has met my boyfriend and states how great he is BUT, she tells me, "Hey sis, you should be hangin' with others who have money and you are pretty enough to date some of those basketball players...I know I would if I were you..." Should I let her statement bother me enough where I find love elsewhere or is she trying to live through me??? He and I have been struggling for a long time...and with this poor economy...it has gotten even harder. Should I be focused on the financial aspects of a relationship or concentrate more on loving him. I don't want to be one of those women who date men with no future (you'all know what I'm talkin' about), but at the same time, I don't want to leave someone who is true.
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