FunStud Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 So I was downtown, and unexpectling this really hot girl who I had no intentions of ever sleeping with calls me up. She tells me she is dressed like a slut and wants to go out for drinks. I told her I was already downtown and she came down by herself. A quick background, she has a boyfriend who is a drug dealer, not only that but he still lives with his parents. She also lives with him at his parents house. We go out and have fun. She is not wearing a bra. Flat stomach, nice C~D cup size ... Then all of a sudden she asks me "do you eat good pussy". So of course I say yes. Then she tells me she wants it bad. I am a little bit of a stoner, I know her boyfriend through a friend and seen him once or twice. She smokes me up before and after sex. She kiss' me good bye. I am worried she got home late and he will find out. I dont want to be killed! A drug dealers girl friend is a really rough thing to get caught with. Anyway, I send her a text "did your night go OK". No response. 4 Days later I call her and dont leave a message. A week later I call and say "going down town for a gig, hit me up". No response. Two weeks later, I invite a friend over and he invites her over, with out me knowing. She says NO. I can't get her out of my mind, she is so hot and she is with such a loser. I don't smoke a lot of weed, but she does and that's probably why she's with this guy. Anyway, I can't stop thinking about her and she probably is never going to talk to me again. But she treated me like a king. How can she treate me like a king and never talk to me again ... Now I get get her out of my head. I slept with another girl since then, still didn't help.
carhill Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 Drugged out or not, that's just how women are. A mystery. Better to not ponder the reasons for too long, lest your d!ck will fall off.
Author FunStud Posted June 3, 2009 Author Posted June 3, 2009 Ya, at least talk to me like a person. I can't figure out if it's me, drunken sex, her boyfriend, or what. All I know is she was super cool and super hot and now I can't even get a peep. It's hard to get over. I have been witting this dialog, like my final "message" to her trying to explain that I care blah blah .... I don't know if I should. Some f-ed up reason, only girls know, they only like guys who are not interested ... what the hell. If a hot chick likes me, woooo HOO.
Enema Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 I have been witting this dialog, like my final "message" to her trying to explain that I care blah blah .... I don't know if I should. Do not under any circumstances do that. You already look like a needy clinger. She had fun, you had fun. You've tried contact 3/4 times already and she's been very clear by her NC. Be cool man.
carhill Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 Some f-ed up reason, only girls know, they only like guys who are not interestedThe reason is simple and complex. Drama is the lens and you are the subject. Snap goes the picture. On to the next subject. Eventually, as the woman matures, she realizes the subject is more important than her really cool zoom lens....
Author FunStud Posted June 3, 2009 Author Posted June 3, 2009 Do not under any circumstances do that. You already look like a needy clinger. She had fun, you had fun. You've tried contact 3/4 times already and she's been very clear by her NC. Be cool man. Yes, you are probably right ... I can't let myself wreck it any more. Is it better to have done what I thought I could never do? ... Sort of.
SilentWolf Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 Sorry hun sounds like you got used. She probably had a curiousity for you and unfortunately its now satisfied. Maybe you weren't as good a performer as you thought, or maybe her boyfriend is just better. Sorry not trying to be mean about it but if it was good and if she was interested in pursuing it further she would not be avoiding you like the plauge. Anyway is that really the sort of girl you want to be stressing over? If she did it to him she'll do it to you too (unless your into that kind of lifestyle).
lora22 Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 I read this as, she called you for sex. You gave it to her. There was only one thing she wanted from you, and she got it. The end. Do you really know this girl at all? Because just based on what you wrote, it totally sounds like you're infatuated with 1. a hot girl with a nice body and 2. the idea that said hot girl with a nice body pursued you by acting out a common fantasy.
Author FunStud Posted June 3, 2009 Author Posted June 3, 2009 Sorry hun sounds like you got used. She probably had a curiousity for you and unfortunately its now satisfied. Maybe you weren't as good a performer as you thought, or maybe her boyfriend is just better. Sorry not trying to be mean about it but if it was good and if she was interested in pursuing it further she would not be avoiding you like the plauge. Anyway is that really the sort of girl you want to be stressing over? If she did it to him she'll do it to you too (unless your into that kind of lifestyle). Interesting you say that because that's exactly why I want to call her. We were doing it at like 3 AM after a night at the bar and smoking up. It was hard to maintain an erection but I did eventually finish the job. When I'm not drunk and tired and smoked up I am usually hard to calm down. I was worried about this before having sex and took 3 pro solution pills. After our first sex, I was so horny. I did give her a lot of head, much more than she showed me any attention. After our first sex we hit the shower and I got a half erection and she told me just to take care of myself. I was drunk, smoked up, at 4:30 AM with 3 pills of pro solution so I did. So now I feel like a perv and a loser who can't get a boner. And it happened with the hottest chick I've ever been with. I want to prove to her neither of those are true, but maybe I've already wrecked any chances of that. And that's really what bothers me. That's mainly what I want, a chance to show her a non exhausted version of myself. Do you think this stuff I just said is why she wont talk to me?
LoveLace Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 #1, like the others said, she used you. She probably has a habit of seeking out whatever her loser boyfriend doesn't provide to her, because he's probably too busy just being a loser....maybe he's been gettin high on his own supply to the point where he's useless. #2 Maybe the BF caught wind of you and was around when you texted or called her, and maybe he threatened her to stay away from you. He might not be that kind of dude at all, but it's typical of what sounds like a very co-dependent relationship they have...a typical drug dealer-girlfriend situation. #3 She's actually a loser herself and therefore, just doesn't give a crap. If she did give a crap, even then, doesn't sound like a gal you'd wanna get more caught up in than you already have. It's the visual and the sexual experience that has you hangin' on, lonely nights at home is about all it's good for now.
Author FunStud Posted June 3, 2009 Author Posted June 3, 2009 Thank you guys for helping me think through this, it has not been easy. I realized a long time ago that a relationship with her would not be the best. Aside form a relationship, it would be nice to at least be friends (possibly with benefits). She reviled to me that she already cheats with other girls. Now this went to my head. But think about her and me and another girl, seeing as she already does that is driving me nuts. That's why I want us to be friends ... you know, it goes to my head and aside from a relationship it would be so awesome if she brought a girlfriend over!! Plus it makes me feel like crap when I have this long standing career and am not bad looking and she is probably double teaming her bf who sells drugs and still lives with her parents .... Why do dealers get this reward?!
LoveLace Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 Thank you guys for helping me think through this, it has not been easy. I realized a long time ago that a relationship with her would not be the best. Aside form a relationship, it would be nice to at least be friends (possibly with benefits). She reviled to me that she already cheats with other girls. Now this went to my head. But think about her and me and another girl, seeing as she already does that is driving me nuts. That's why I want us to be friends ... you know, it goes to my head and aside from a relationship it would be so awesome if she brought a girlfriend over!! Plus it makes me feel like crap when I have this long standing career and am not bad looking and she is probably double teaming her bf who sells drugs and still lives with her parents .... Why do dealers get this reward?! And it shall all remain as fantasies, my friend. Chances are she has fairly low self-esteem, or she probably wouldn't make the kind of choices that she does. She's in her own little world, probably doesn't care to make you more part of it than she has. And believe me I understand, because I have to deal with guys picking chicks like her over me, all the time.
Author FunStud Posted June 3, 2009 Author Posted June 3, 2009 Ya ... Am I way off to think that holding an erection has to do with her never wanting to speak to me again? And if she is never going to speak to me again ... why is it a big deal if I leave a message to tell her some stuff?
LoveLace Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 And if she is never going to speak to me again ... why is it a big deal if I leave a message to tell her some stuff? Hey man, you can do whatever ya want...no one's stoppin ya. It just probably won't get you anything besides more frustration...or perhaps a drug dealer that doesn't like dudes calling his GF
lora22 Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 Dude, the most likely interpretation of events, as you presented them, is that the only thing she wanted from you was sex. So, no offense, but if that's all I wanted from a guy, and he didn't come through, I would not talk to him again, why would I? As far as constantly contacting someone that is ignoring you, all you have to lose is your pride, and maybe more if the drug dealer bf finds out.
Mary3 Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 So I was downtown, and unexpectling this really hot girl who I had no intentions of ever sleeping with calls me up. She tells me she is dressed like a slut and wants to go out for drinks. I told her I was already downtown and she came down by herself. A quick background, she has a boyfriend who is a drug dealer, not only that but he still lives with his parents. She also lives with him at his parents house. We go out and have fun. She is not wearing a bra. Flat stomach, nice C~D cup size ... Then all of a sudden she asks me "do you eat good pussy". So of course I say yes. Then she tells me she wants it bad. I am a little bit of a stoner, I know her boyfriend through a friend and seen him once or twice. She smokes me up before and after sex. She kiss' me good bye. I am worried she got home late and he will find out. I dont want to be killed! A drug dealers girl friend is a really rough thing to get caught with. Anyway, I send her a text "did your night go OK". No response. 4 Days later I call her and dont leave a message. A week later I call and say "going down town for a gig, hit me up". No response. Two weeks later, I invite a friend over and he invites her over, with out me knowing. She says NO. I can't get her out of my mind, she is so hot and she is with such a loser. I don't smoke a lot of weed, but she does and that's probably why she's with this guy. Anyway, I can't stop thinking about her and she probably is never going to talk to me again. But she treated me like a king. How can she treate me like a king and never talk to me again ... Now I get get her out of my head. I slept with another girl since then, still didn't help. Sooooo many things wrong with this : She's dressed like a slut " ( do you want a girl thats a slut, that should be saved for the bedroom. Hot is hot but slutty is not... She called YOU. She wants some **** that night. There you were flabergasted that she expressed interest in you... Her BF is a drug dealer ( thats your next problem ) #1 She HAS a bf...# 2 She has a drug dealing bf....chances are she uses drugs... Her bf ( LOSER ) lives with his mommy. Get REAL ! Drug dealers can afford nice houses and fancy cars right ?? He must be a BAD drug dealer... She lives with him / mommy daddy / too.....loserish behavior again.. She is bra~less , dressed like a slut and asks you to munch on her *****. has a drug dealing loser bf and you CONTEMPLATE a relationship with her ?? I heard that smoking da weed causes yer pecker to go soft...not sure about that one...enlighten me guys.. Last but NOT least. The loser bf is going to kill you ? With what ? His mommmys rolling pin ?? Don't worry about your penis. Its all relative...
LoveLace Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 I don't think the OP is in relationship mode near as much as he just wants to have a 3some with her and some other whore. Either way, better to move on...
Author FunStud Posted June 4, 2009 Author Posted June 4, 2009 Dude, the most likely interpretation of events, as you presented them, is that the only thing she wanted from you was sex. So, no offense, but if that's all I wanted from a guy, and he didn't come through, I would not talk to him again, why would I? As far as constantly contacting someone that is ignoring you, all you have to lose is your pride, and maybe more if the drug dealer bf finds out. Well, I did show her a good time and I did sort of do what you would call sex. But it was drunk and sloppy and I sort of had to wake it up a few times. Plus, I give her a ton of head and she apparently Oed, I never really know if a girl Os or not ... Why would this be so bad that you wouldn't want to come back when I show that much love down there. So as a friend maybe she would understand that I was drunk and not be so belligerent that my one shot to show her what I am made of is when I am on 10% battery. Girls can be drunk as they want and never have to worry. If you take the one instance of when I was drunk, smoking and 3 AM as my ultimate appraisal of future situations, that is upsetting. I just feel misrepresented and want to show her what I can do.
Mary3 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 It seems your more concerned with making things * right * in the bedroom ,as if that would magically make her less slutty and more responsible than to sleep around on her drug dealing bf...
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