Nokia1446 Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 I have a GF that I started NC with the day before yesterday. I had accepted her back a week prior, after splitting for 5 weeks after finding she had dated her boss while still with me for a month. Yes, stupid me. Shes very convincing, conniving and manipulative. In the last day she has said: -shes gotten in an accident and wanted me to pick her up -she has to put her dog down because they found an infection and wanted me to comfort her -said she loved me and wanted me to marry her today -said she was going to put a restraining order on me Within a week of us "being back together" I find an email on her phone to her ex fling (her ex boss) (whom she left me for) saying that she loved him and wanted to be with him forever... and this was during the time i was spending with her, while at a hotel, only because she had threatened to 'kill herself' because she was so unhappy with her life 'and the way i was treating her' by trying to eradicate from my life. In the past shes taken my money, cheated on me etc.. and when trying to get me back.. and explaining her love for me.. she says.. she loves me because 'the way i loved her'.. that nobody will love her like i do. ITS ALWAYS ABOUT HER I just want her out of my life. Last time I took her in because she showed up at my house and barged in.. after showing yp at my work ... and calling my work... and calling my phone. Then I ignored her for a few days and she flooded my phone again and conned me into hanging out again, while saying she doesnt work for him anymore... and here we are.... after refusing to show me her phone after her sketchy behavior.. I have broken off things with her.. but do NOT WANT TO BE COAXED IN AGAIN. I am still shocked that she is not THE ONE. I had already had the belief that we were getting married, with kids, and a house etc. It was a reality in my mind. I was already 10 years out. Im very shocked this all happened the way it did... but after 9 months of sheer torture... between her moods, selfishness, rudeness etc.. ive decided the 10% of good days arent good enough... even if it was my first relationship. She, and her mother have tried convincing me that she still needs to WORK AT HER CURRENT JOB, WITH HER BOSS whom she left me for... but i wont allow it. Is that so hard to understand? Am I making the wrong decision?
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