xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Why do people keep my number? Especially after one date? Remember V? He was the guy who tried to stuck his tongue down my throat on the first date. Apparently he's back. OMG, what the hell? It's been three weeks at the most, and he kept my number all this time. He texts me to tell me he wants to see again... apparently not returning his texts just means yes in his book. I'm disgusted.... I want to change my #.
kizik Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 What a jerk for wanting to see you again. Ugh. Gross! I bet he even has a penis!
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 What a jerk for wanting to see you again. Ugh. Gross! I bet he even has a penis! I can't tell if you're actually being sarcastic or not... But honestly though, why would I want to put myself in a position for him to put the moves on me again? I'm not stupid. I don't care if he's a lawyer and works for corporate America.... He was a creep.
lora22 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 He was a creep. So tell him! If you don't want to be honest ("You're a creep, leave me alone"), which could be construed as rude, all you have to do it send a text back telling him you're not interested, or requesting he stop contacting you or whatever. Seriously, I know it's annoying when guys don't take a hint, b/c I've been in that position, but you don't really have a right to complain if you're not doing anything about it. I think everyone would agree that he's stupid for not taking the hint (you're ignoring him), but since he's probably deluded and thinks you're playing hard to get, and likes the chase, obviously that won't work. You're smarter than he is, so tell him!
Star Gazer Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 He was the guy who tried to stuck his tongue down my throat on the first date. That's funny. I wonder if guys ever think, "Remember her? She was the gal who stuck my cock down her throat of the first/second date." What's the point of this thread, Paper? Is this another attempt to validate yourself?
BubblyPopcorn Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Why do people keep my number? Especially after one date? Remember V? He was the guy who tried to stuck his tongue down my throat on the first date. Apparently he's back. OMG, what the hell? It's been three weeks at the most, and he kept my number all this time. He texts me to tell me he wants to see again... apparently not returning his texts just means yes in his book. I'm disgusted.... I want to change my #. You and Diehard should go out on a date.....
Star Gazer Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 He was a creep. Oh, come on, Paper. No, he wasn't. Trying to kiss you after you willingly went back to his apartment with him isn't unreasonable, IMO. If you were uncomfortable with the situation, fault yourself, not him.
kizik Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 That's funny. I wonder if guys ever think, "Remember her? She was the gal who stuck my cock down her throat of the first/second date." What's the point of this thread, Paper? Is this another attempt to validate yourself? Listen, SG, Paper has standards, OK?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Oh, come on, Paper. No, he wasn't. Trying to kiss you after you willingly went back to his apartment with him isn't unreasonable, IMO. If you were uncomfortable with the situation, fault yourself, not him. SG, it was drizzling that day, so it was poor judgment on my part to even go back to his place. I know I shouldn't blame the weather, but at least I got myself out of that situation. I never expected him to kiss me, seriously do all men kiss on the first date? Whatever happened to taking it slow? I was turned off completely, not that I was even attracted to him in the first place. Why do you accuse me of looking for validation? I don't want validation from this guy. And I find it kind of weird that you always seem to hold my bjs with artist guy against me. I've been NC since that day he told me things were going nowhere. So don't judge me for me being inexperienced. You told me yourself you were young once.
clv0116 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Listen, SG, Paper has standards, OK? Reminds me of a line in a (bad) old Val Kilmer movie: "Can you drive a 6-inch spike through a board with your penis?" "Uh, not right now." "Tsk. A girl has to have her standards." -- Deborah Foreman to Val Kilmer in "Real Genius"
Star Gazer Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Listen, SG, Paper has standards, OK? I'm sorry... I keep forgetting.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Listen, SG, Paper has standards, OK? kizik your posts hardly ever comes across as meaningful or helpful for that matter. Have you taken a look at most of your posts, and how much sarcasm you instill in your writings? Not even towards me, but towards other LShackers as well.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 You and Diehard should go out on a date..... Sorry, didn't get the joke.
kizik Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I only mock people who deserve it. You've made a joke out of yourself by flaunting your promiscuous behavior on here and fighting everyone who comments on it. I could care less what YOU think of me.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 So tell him! If you don't want to be honest ("You're a creep, leave me alone"), which could be construed as rude, all you have to do it send a text back telling him you're not interested, or requesting he stop contacting you or whatever. Seriously, I know it's annoying when guys don't take a hint, b/c I've been in that position, but you don't really have a right to complain if you're not doing anything about it. I think everyone would agree that he's stupid for not taking the hint (you're ignoring him), but since he's probably deluded and thinks you're playing hard to get, and likes the chase, obviously that won't work. You're smarter than he is, so tell him! I don't have a texting plan, and neither do I want to waste my breath talking to him. He should get it by now, that I'm not interested. I'll just block his number.
Star Gazer Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I never expected him to kiss me, seriously do all men kiss on the first date? Whatever happened to taking it slow? I was turned off completely.... Oh, the irony!!! You're KIDDING, right??? "What ever happened to taking it slow??" Have you asked YOURSELF that question?? Hello, blow jobs on the second date? Why do you accuse me of looking for validation? Because you do. I've been NC since that day he told me things were going nowhere. Absolutely not true, by your own posts and threads. A lie, to yourself, to everyone here.
lora22 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I don't have a texting plan, and neither do I want to waste my breath talking to him. He should get it by now, that I'm not interested. I'll just block his number. He should get it, but he doesn't. So if you're going to be passive, don't complain.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 I only mock people who deserve it. You've made a joke out of yourself by flaunting your promiscuous behavior on here and fighting everyone who comments on it. I could care less what YOU think of me. I feel sorry for you kizik. You can mock me all you want, but honestly I never flaunted my promiscuity, I merely wrote things as they were. I never flaunted that I slept with 20 men or had wild spring breaks or whatever, which never ever even happened, and you're basically accusing me of being a whore for sleeping with one guy. Apparently you're just looking to start fights with people on here. If you're so keen to mock people, there's the OW/OM and the cheating forums for you to go to.
kizik Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 You feel sorry for me? Great! Enjoy it if it makes you feel better about yourself.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Oh, the irony!!! You're KIDDING, right??? "What ever happened to taking it slow??" Have you asked YOURSELF that question?? Hello, blow jobs on the second date? Because you do. Absolutely not true, by your own posts and threads. A lie, to yourself, to everyone here. yeah I sense the irony. And I haven't put myself in that position since. So don't accuse me of being a liar when I said I haven't had any contact with him. Becuase I haven't. I haven't seen him or talked to him since that day.
BubblyPopcorn Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I think what some are trying to point out, is that you are mocking someone who is clearly interested in you, and you are specifically mocking him for BEING interested in you. And, it's a regular pattern for you. How you would you feel if Art Guy went on a public message forum and publicized every single intimate detail of the two of you and then he mocked your interest in him? "Yeah this paper girl cooks me dinner and gives me a BJ every time she comes over but ewe I’m disgusted because she likes me"..........
BCCA Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 yeah I sense the irony. And I haven't put myself in that position since. So don't accuse me of being a liar when I said I haven't had any contact with him. Becuase I haven't. I haven't seen him or talked to him since that day. Weren't you at his house like 2 days later, trying to tell everyone how you might want him as a booty call? You go from one extreme to the next. First giving head on the second date, then getting grossed out by someone trying to kiss you. Its nonsensical, and I wonder if its really just a cry for attention.
zhsoj Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I feel sorry for you kizik. You can mock me all you want, but honestly I never flaunted my promiscuity, I merely wrote things as they were. I never flaunted that I slept with 20 men or had wild spring breaks or whatever, which never ever even happened, and you're basically accusing me of being a whore for sleeping with one guy. Apparently you're just looking to start fights with people on here. If you're so keen to mock people, there's the OW/OM and the cheating forums for you to go to. I don't want to kick you when you're down, but you should understand that to most guys Kizik's sarcasm is quite funny. Look at this objectively for a minute. It's socially accepted that guys are the ones that are tasked with starting relationships. Then look at your actions: you, though inadvertently, misled him into thinking you came back to his place for something. Then after you rebuff him, instead of talking to him and being straight with him, you simply ignore him. You don't want him to contact you. You can either own this and tell him you are not interested, or you can go about avoiding your life and play the victim. If you choose the latter route, don't be surprised when someone calls you on it. You especially shouldn't be surprised when it's a guy as every guy has certainly been on the other side of this.
Star Gazer Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Weren't you at his house like 2 days later, trying to tell everyone how you might want him as a booty call? You go from one extreme to the next. First giving head on the second date, then getting grossed out by someone trying to kiss you. Its nonsensical, and I wonder if its really just a cry for attention. She tends to forget that her threads remain here forever....
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