Charles1978 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 As I've mentioned before, I am seeing two girls right now. How it happened is a bit of a messed up situation, but I digress. Bottom line is that I started seeing these two girls at roughly the same time. Anyway, one is 7 years younger, and the other is 2 years younger. (Im 30) The younger one is becoming attatched and I'm pretty sure she is in love with me. I've noticed a few times recently when she wanted to say it, but didn't. Instead, she said that she would "marry me one day". Yep, too soon to be talking like that. I have dated her for 6 weeks, and the older one for 4 weeks. The younger one was dating around a bit when we first met, so I did the same. I already was anyway, so I didn't do it just because she was. During this time, the older one (previously just a friend) and I started seeing eachother. The older one knows of the younger one, but the younger one doesn't know about the older one. However, she suspects I am still dating around. I didn't see this situation coming, but it is what happened. So my situation is one where I have EQUAL feelings for both. All things considered, it is a dead even tie in my book. But I can't go on like this forever. My question is... what is a normal timeframe for couples to become exclusive? I'm thinking about two months, in which case my time is running out. Does anyone have an opinion on this? I'm usually a one girl at a time kinda guy, so this is new territory for me. They are both hinting that I need to decide... and soon.
lora22 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 There's no timeframe/limit for becoming exclusive (or not), but since both girls are hinting that they want a commitment from you, well there's your timeframe. I understand you have feelings for both girls...but from reading your other thread, to be honest, I wouldn't choose either of them. Just my $.02.
Author Charles1978 Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 That's an option too. Part of me just wants to run away from this situation alltogether. Why is it when you aren't looking for a relationship, nor necessarily want one, that one finds you? Or two for that matter? I have no one to blame but myself, so I'm going to try to do the right thing. Thanks for the reply.
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