Woggle Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 My wife and I were talking about going to Vegas this summer but this morning she came up with the idea of staying home those two weeks on vacation and enjoying our new pool. We just recently had a pool put in and pretty much built a new backyard and she figured we should enjoy it and have a few cookouts and this like that. This sounds good but she knows that I am not into Casinos and Vegas was more for her than me. I was perfectly okay with it because I am sure I could find something to do and I know she has been perfectly willing to go to do what I wanted on previous trips. Is she just giving in or do you think she is serious about this change of plans?
stuckinoz Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Perhaps it's both. Maybe she gave in knowing you don't like the casinos AND with the new pool, what a perfect time to just be at home with you & enjoy your time together. Marriage is about give & take.......maybe she's just doing a lil' giving right now. Personally, while I love the party-time in Vegas....I'd love to spend even just one week enjoying such a luxury as a new pool, entertaining, bbqing, being at home relaxing. But that's just me.
quankanne Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 it might be a bit of a compromise, but my guess is that her thinking is, "well, we DID sink a good bit of money in a lovely pool, why piss away more doing something he's not going to enjoy? Any how, I've got this pool all to myself!!!" plan a few fun things locally that you normally may not do, like visiting an amusement part or museums, just to add a little spice to your stay-cation, I'm guessing your wife will love the idea of doing something different at home with you.
soserious1 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 She wants to stay home ALONE with you, naked, skinny dipping and giving you unlimited amounts of sexual pleasure, she probably also wants to stay at home cooking all your favorite meals for you. Let her think that you'll go along with her request but simply as a special favor to you... and that she'll owe you for it , you could probably wrangle a skinny dipping threesome with her sister or her best friend out of this if you play your cards right Wog.
whichwayisup Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 It is what it is. IF she truly wanted to go away, you two would be going to Vegas.. So, just enjoy the holidays together. Make it special, romance her, woo her etc.. Have sex in the pool, beside the pool, in the shower, in bed, all over the place.. Surprise her and take her to Vegas in the Fall for a long weekend.
Touche Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I don't know what her true motivations are but I can tell you that right after we had our pool put in we actually cancelled a trip we had planned because we didn't want to leave. We were enjoying our backyard and pool too much and saw no point in leaving.
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