bobbyjohannah Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 What do you do when no contact is broken but by accident? I keep running into my ex every few weeks or seeing his new girlfriend all the time, every time i do, i can't stop thinking about it and it makes me constantly dream about it and makes me miss him, this is after a period of 3 months of not seeing him where i thought i was getting better. When i run into him he'll either ignore me or try and get my attention. we do not speak though. How can I heal in this situation?
tigerstripes Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Just keep reminding yourself that this was not the right guy for you and there's someone better in your future. And the sooner you're feeling better about the breakup, the sooner you'll be able to move on and find the new great guy.
TaraMaiden Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 First of all, who broke up with whom? Secondly, even if he 'tries to get your attention', avoid eye contact and make out you have not even seen him. No contact means behaving as if the person was non-existent... If you want, at the time he tries to get under your skin, ring somebody up on your mobile, and get into an animated discussion with them. Then, he cannot attract your attention, if it is elsewhere, can he? _/l\_
Author bobbyjohannah Posted June 3, 2009 Author Posted June 3, 2009 Well he broke up with me first, then we got back together then I ended it because i found him cheating on me in a club with a random girl. He has been with his girlfriend since about 2 weeks after we broke up. The way he tries to get my attention is to stare at me or smile at me or raise his eyebrows or talk to my friends when i'm there. Or most of the time, we can be standing practically next to each other pretending the other doesn't exist.....
N8Love80 Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 This guy sounds like a complete player. I think you can do way better and he doesn't deserve a second thought. It's hard to do, but you gotta be strong.
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