Mr. Noname Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Hi there, I was having a dream tonight, it's just sad! I dreamed of my ex that she wanted to talk with me. We worked things out and were happy for the rest of our lifes! It's frustrating to think so much about her, especially when she does not! Maybe she finds it difficult she can't have my attention anymore but nothing else matters. I know she is a good person and she will never hate me, she will never tell bad things about me. I think it was hard for her too in some kind of way. But it's not fair, she is happy now and doing all great stuff... think about it: my ex is just f*ck*ng HAPPY about the whole situation, she is relieved! I know she finds it hard for me, but she does not think about me that often. How can young girls can be so "not grown up" and cannot come to the conclusion that the grass at the other side hasn't to be greener after all! I hope someday she will regret it and realize she can't have me back because I'm in love with a greater person then she is! I hope this will happen, that she can have the feeling that I have been going trough last 3.5 weeks. I'm now on 19 days of NC, it's hard but I understand that making contact is not helpful. She can only say sorry and give false hope to say: maybe over a year or so we can come back together. Things I don't want to know, that she is having a great time, have fun with girlfriends and maybe..... she is attracted to a man who knows. IT'S SO UNFAIR!! Please give her the feeling that I have and she will come crying back to me. Why is she so ignorant and act in a way that she thinks is good for her! Anybody knows when some of these sad feelings will vanish?
Soul Bear Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Read that post again about letting go...the one I had up that you didnt agree with When you practice that your feelings will start to subside
Nikki Sahagin Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I had a dream about my ex last night too. Him bursting out crying - sorting things out. You wake up thinking 'wtf'. The sadness will fade, but its more about filling the void with something else. So if you're missing hugs (this is usually easier for ladies) hug all your girlfriends! Get a pet you can lavish affection on. Take out physical energy on sports/at the gym. Find different outlets for the energy you would have used on them.
Excellent Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Stay NC, stay busy, and eventually you'll come to a point where you don't miss your ex, but that 'someone'. I'm there at the moment, and although it's quite boring, it doesn't hurt atleast.
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