Author kostoronto Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 this is what she said: Obviously I'd choose to talk to you. Let's not be ridiculous. Wouldn't have added you or even continued talking to you. It makes me kind of sad you'd assume I'm like that. Maybe I shouldn't have expected it. And I'd like to add I resent that statement about taking you for granted. Because you hardly know me or what I'm about. I'm not perfect and I know it. And if you feel like teaching me a lesson then ****ing go for it. I'm not going to be guilted into liking or disliking you. Whatever you do, all the best. And I sincerely mean that. I've laid my cards out and you can do what you want. I honestly want to teleport to her and give her a massive hug and feed her marshmellows. ****. haha
lora22 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I honestly want to teleport to her and give her a massive hug and feed her marshmellows. You're so easy. I'm liking the sounds of law class girl. Dude, why waste your emotional energy on someone so far away (especially when you're so young) when there's wicked cool girls right there! You might as well be listening to emo, cuz sounds like that's the soundtrack to your life
Author kostoronto Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 hahaha I know I'm easy, it's a good thing I'm not a girl, I'd be pregnant by now. I get what you're saying about law class girl, but online girl and I have history. Also, when she comes back to my province, I think everything will be good. Oh, and online girl knows about Saturday night girl. She coaches me in wheeling her; however, we openly talk about how she's much better than her and how we'd make a good pair. Women are amazing.
carhill Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 OK, so get the heck off LS and go find out how amazing they are
Author kostoronto Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 it's 1:14 in the morning I have a date next week with saturday night girl and I'm going to the same seminar as law class girl for a week. we'll be staying at the university.
lora22 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 "Buried Myself Alive" The Used. I'm predicting this will be your soundtrack to the online girl drama. Focus on law girl and Sat. night girl
xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Holy crap, for a 16 year old you sure know how to play. Hmm where was I 3 years ago? I remember I was still an awkward social caterpillar learning to deal with high school rather than focus on boys. Goes to show how fast technology in general can change us completely. :laugh: Well T, have fun dating, but lose the drama. You may be 16, but you're still too young to deal with heartache. Don't take things too seriously or you might grow up to be a bitter chauvinist.
MineThatBird Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Dude if you can realize these things sooner at a teen level than later from experience you will be MAD strong as a person. **One thing I will say and it happened to me, is no matter how much someone from outside perspective has good advice to give you, you will not follow until you realize** in retrospect I would've listened to all the advice given to me but when feelings are involved I know its hard to make logical choices so trust me I know what you're going through and the best ADVICE I can give is to stop contacting her and trying to play detective and figure out why she did what and IF she contacts you what it really means.. Bro you will kill yourself wondering the whys, what ifs and what does this mean.. One day you HOPEFULLY will get it and the sooner you do the better of a person you will be.. +1 The emotional/ physical damage of abandonment stems from an overabundance of self-examination.
mental_traveller Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 and she just blocked me Forget her, that is all you can do. Next time, don't develop strong feelings for someone you've never even met.
Soul Bear Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 What if you saw her and she was like 70000lbs and had half an arm and no leg, smelt of fish but her entire social life revolved around these online meetings?! I bet you wouldnt care anymore Or what if that was just pictures of her grand daughter she stuck on facebook and she turned out to be 87 and widowed?!! LOL
Author kostoronto Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 What if you saw her and she was like 70000lbs and had half an arm and no leg, smelt of fish but her entire social life revolved around these online meetings?! I bet you wouldnt care anymore Or what if that was just pictures of her grand daughter she stuck on facebook and she turned out to be 87 and widowed?!! LOL hahaha good joke
Author kostoronto Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 oh, and Sat Night girl and I have a date set up for next Monday. We're going bowling haha
Author kostoronto Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 ooh, update! After sending me that message [look a few posts back] I sent her a message. I know she's at the computer, has been for about an hour now, and she hasn't sent me a message back. Still hasn't unblocked me, either. Yayyyyyy for her. what a b - i - t - c - h.
mr.dream merchant Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 Now that's just the wrong perspective/attitude. You're mad and hurt - get rid of some of that negative energy by going for a run, or a swim, or beating the crap out of a punching bag, or cleaning the house reeeaaallly well (your parents will love that one ). Allow yourself to feel mad and hurt and whatever else, but focus all of that energy into something active. That helps me get over things. And then move on. She obviously doesn't deserve someone like you, because she doesn't know how to treat others well herself. So forget her, she's the one who's screwed in the long run. Sat. night girl sounds fun and nice - little racy for 16, but I was a prude in high school, still am a little Yeah you might want to take this advice because you could use this negative energy in the wrong way and turn into a player who just manipulates chicks to get what you want and bounce, I know alot of guys who turned out like that because of being used themselves, myself included.
WineCountry Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 ooh, update! After sending me that message [look a few posts back] I sent her a message. I know she's at the computer, has been for about an hour now, and she hasn't sent me a message back. Still hasn't unblocked me, either. Yayyyyyy for her. what a b - i - t - c - h. Okay..I think a 16 year old boy is teaching me how to get men. Simply be a raging, unobtainable b-i-*-c-h and the guys will obsess over you.
Author kostoronto Posted June 3, 2009 Author Posted June 3, 2009 pretty much hahaha after 2 hours of studying to relaxation music, calling a helpline for breathing exercises, and three walks, I think I'm starting to get over her. HURRAYYYY Now on to getting with Saturday Night Girl....
WineCountry Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 pretty much hahaha after 2 hours of studying to relaxation music, calling a helpline for breathing exercises, and three walks, I think I'm starting to get over her. HURRAYYYY Now on to getting with Saturday Night Girl.... Do you have some video games where you can like blow stuff up if you need more stress relievers? My cousins live to play all that stuff. Make sure you work out all that frustration before you meet Saturday girl! lol You seem like you will do fine, though.
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