heartbrokenxxxx Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 i have posted previous threads on here which to sum them up i was with my ex for nearly 4 years on and off ( on and off because he had dumped me a few times in the past) who was my first love but he went cold on me again so i had to dump him as hes messed me about alot in the past and i new i couldnt wait around to be dumped again. we broke up march 15th, we havent contacted eachother since (except one phone call from me a week later to see how he feels but had a cold response) and i thought i was just about coping after all this time NC but then i saw him today at college as he was sat eating near me and i feel im back to square one where im really depressed and feel i cant go on like this when i saw him my heart sank, was shaking and struggled to hold back my tears... and he seemed fine chatting away to his friends so hes probably over me while im still feeling like this about him which hurts even more!! i feel so low and thought i was achieving something through NC but now ive seen him i feel so low again, i miss him so much it actually hurts. just needed to tell someone as i have no one to turn to and i feel so alone. any replys of your experiences or advice would be appreciated.
loveshy Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Listen.... That guy might have been in relationships before.. and more experience.. So what he is actually is doing is not showing his feelings...and controlling them... Whenever your in front of him... Keep smiling...
bluesky123 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 If he truly loved you he would never cheat on you or mess around. I know it my sound harsh but their are so many guys out there who will treat you better. I wish you all the best:)
Author heartbrokenxxxx Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 he never cheated on me it was on and off because he changed his mind alot of whether we wanted to be with me. hes never been in a relationship before either so hes not controlling his feelings.. i really feel hes the only one for me, i have dated a few guys but none of them clicked with me, i just want my ex deep down even though i no we shouldnt be together... ah so hard i want to move on i really do but i cant if i still love him
TheCat Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 You say you're in college so you should be around my age. To be honest, other people are right. Always smile when you see them, otherwise they will know they've got you. And always look your best. When my bf dumped me I went and got my hair done Do something for yourself and yourself only. Get your hair done, mani/pedi, whatever makes you feel attractive. If you feel attractive, he will notice it too, and then he will hate himself for dumping you. I know it hurts right now, I mean my bf whom I thought was the love of my life dumped me 4 days ago to be with someone else, and I have been crying everyday, but guess what! We both (you and I) can do better than that, and in time you will see that Go out and do some serious partying with your friends, it will take your mind off him. And i mean SERIOUS partying!
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