kaisergal Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Hi i wasa mates with this flirty/tactile guy for over a year. He had a fiancé so didnt see anything in it. When he started having problems with his then gf he started acting different towards me. Was texting me alot, chatting to me for a while on msn each night being cheekier than normal. Saying stuff like if we went out for a drink he might not behave or if i went to see him he might not be able to keep his hands to himself. Hinting he wanted more than a friendship. I said to him how boys and girls can go out as mates but he was like would be more fun if they weren’t and how he could go out with me as i wasn’t just any girl! He even took me out for a posh meal out and was a true gentlemen! Nothing happened just a bit of cuddling really Anyway after a while i felt him going cold on me i didnt know why till he told me he met this girl a week later he dumped his fiancé for her. He said it was a difficult decision but he had been having problems with his current girlfriend and the girl in question dumped her live in long term boyfriend. He totally denied waht he did with me and after just 2 months was engaged to this girl and after 4 months is living with her - this is his 4th engagement. Whats your view on him?
Mycroft Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?searchid=8488127
TaraMaiden Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 The link doesn't work... "sorry no matches... please try some different terms....." Kaisergal...please - please! - tell me this is not the same guy you keep going on - and on - and on - and on - and on - about. Pleeease.....
2sure Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 He is not romantically interested in you. It sound like you viewed his friendliness and flirting as more than he did. It happens.
TaraMaiden Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 She has posted the same topic, virtually every other day, since April..... I will say this for her..... She sure is persistent...!!
2sure Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Oh yeah. OK. He secretly wants only you. As demonstrated by his inability to commit sincerely to anyone else. He is waiting for you to make the next move. Since he is in the unfortunate position right now of being unhappily linked with someone who is no doubt domineering and controlling - he may be unable to answer your calls. But YOU are the one he loves. Have you considered leaving him a note on his car? Stopping by his office? Clearly, there is something more to this than he has said.
Mycroft Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Sorry, the link was supposed to show all her started threads. This one confuses me, your advice is great though 2sure! lol Ive made a little effort to get her to elaborate which she ignores, its not believable that she still has the same exact "questions" after all this time. Troll i guess. If you're reading kaisergirl and you actually want something constructive from this thread, you need to do more than post the same thing over and over and over.
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