sultry33 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 is this normal... The guy im with now who is lovely drives me crazy at the same time.. maybe its silly but its hard to explain. example in the morning im a get up and run about kinda girl.. cant sit around him.. puts on film.. chills for like hrs:eek: even put on tom an jerry yesterday.. im at his flat so cannot run around hoover an clean etc.. was told his nick name is "one speed" and im getting that lol i have mentioned it few times that i find it really hard sitting still so after sleep etc im even worse. will say yea its prob my problem but it will drive me crazy. In most other ways its really cool we get on well have similar tastes he isvery different from most guys ive dated, kids really are keen on him..my family like him. he makes me smile,laugh.. is really kind and totally honest. just our different pulse beats lol will drive me nuts.. anyone else get this?
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 I'd say this is just one of those things that you'll have to learn to accept if you want the man. If it bothers you to see him sitting around, how about you leave the house? Go for a run or a walk and burn off some energy. I dunno - BF and I are on the same page on this one. It takes awhile to wake up in the mornings (both hate mornings). While some mornings he HAS to get moving because of his job, if he's not forced, we can chill for hours like you're talking about. LOL He sounds like a good guy, though. You guys sound compatible otherwise.
Bejita463 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 The insight I can offer, however limited, is that people who try to get me to do things when I feel like relaxing drive me crazy. Pushing him to be more active would, in my opinion, be a bad plan.
Author sultry33 Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 The insight I can offer, however limited, is that people who try to get me to do things when I feel like relaxing drive me crazy. Pushing him to be more active would, in my opinion, be a bad plan. yea thats what i dont want to end up doing.. he likes to chill i like to be busy.. its how im wired, if i chill i tend to fall asleep.. for me chill time is after 10pm.. 10am im super hyped. its only problem whilst im at his as at mine i can be busy he can chill lol
Author sultry33 Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 I'd say this is just one of those things that you'll have to learn to accept if you want the man. If it bothers you to see him sitting around, how about you leave the house? Go for a run or a walk and burn off some energy. I dunno - BF and I are on the same page on this one. It takes awhile to wake up in the mornings (both hate mornings). While some mornings he HAS to get moving because of his job, if he's not forced, we can chill for hours like you're talking about. LOL He sounds like a good guy, though. You guys sound compatible otherwise. hi soul, thats probably what it is.. im used to gtting up running around.. i try walk like 9 miles a day in week but weekends i go clubbing so dance for about 5hrs.. never really realised i was a "hyper" girl until him as before in my last rs we did our own stuff but evenings we chilled together.. mornings we both was busy.. different guy very different but for me to chill is like im suffocating lol did watch 2 films with him ghostbusters and cannon ball .. tom an jerry was too much:lmao: so that was big step for me.. i like him alot though so maybe i need to invest in running machine i get up and have sooo much energy.. tried the other exercise;) but im still hyped.. i think i should talk to him about it but i think problem really is me.. so guess compromise would help. how to approach it is hard though as i dont want him to think im bored.
Bejita463 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 i try walk like 9 miles a day I thought I was doing good cycling 12 miles a day on workdays. Wow.
Author sultry33 Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 I thought I was doing good cycling 12 miles a day on workdays. Wow. joining gym today;) i did get the step challenge bit wrong.. was trying do 20,000 steps i love walking though..had to take 2 weeks off blisters.. but back on it tomo 12miles cyclin.. u must have great legs:D
Bejita463 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 joining gym today;) i did get the step challenge bit wrong.. was trying do 20,000 steps i love walking though..had to take 2 weeks off blisters.. but back on it tomo 12miles cyclin.. u must have great legs:D It is still relatively new to me, actually. Cycling is proving to be more difficult than it looks. The spandex road warriors still pass me like I'm not even moving. What exactly is the "step challenge"? I've never heard of it.
Author sultry33 Posted June 25, 2009 Author Posted June 25, 2009 sorry step challenge was a walk initive programme.. Well we discussed the above problem and he said it was cool an that he needed to get motivated sometimes.. however when left he still is like that for example: last sat was his birthday do.. was all going out at 9pm.. he didnt leave mine till 4-30pm although since 12pm he said he had to get movin:eek: i was goin slightly insane as i was tryin to get my stuff together an needed to clean house cook dinner.. settle kids etc plus get ready "yea i need a few hrs destress time " i was havin to keep reminding him to check numbers of guests plus get cab booked as bigger cab hard to get... he booked it at 7pm.. Anyway we survived This week we had been invited to another town by my friend and her fella as we went out recently and had a great time.. my bf said he would come but said he would drive.. all good, then he said he would take us to another town... basically we was going to a great place .. he wants us to go to a rubbish place:eek: i said "well i cannot really change the location as they invited me" he was like well im driving! anyway l did not want to go there also as my ex comes from there and he is a alcoholic now so as its the ONLY place in that town to go to chances id see him are high.. so i explained that.. but my bf has now cancelled saying his friend wanted to see him so he cant come... i was like thats ok no problem.. but actually today i feel like wtf.. i asked him well over a week ago so do feel he could have seen him another time, and his friend only called yesterday.. i do like him but im having doubts.. i know im not the easiest person and my life is very busy etc but im feeling very close to thinking i want out.. he is renovating a flat too which he is moving into towards the end of the year.. he says he will see me lots still and even wants to take me on holiday etc.. but im thinking we are on different paths.. im thinking of getting out now tbh any advice? x
sally4sara Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 It is still relatively new to me, actually. Cycling is proving to be more difficult than it looks. The spandex road warriors still pass me like I'm not even moving. What exactly is the "step challenge"? I've never heard of it. Don't let them get to you, their bikes are way more involved and expensive. With out one like they have, you will never be as fast. But good for you! Cycling rocks! OP? What is niggles? You titled your first post this way and it is a racial slur from my old neighborhood......I'd hate to assume something! Maybe you and Mr. New can get into couple's yoga? It counts as foreplay too!
NoTNorMal Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 My last girlfriend and I went through 3 sets of sweaty bed sheets a nite. Are you wearing him out and maybe he needs time to recooperate in the morning? Why don't you try doing something less sexual in the morning like playing scrabble or chess?
Author sultry33 Posted June 25, 2009 Author Posted June 25, 2009 My last girlfriend and I went through 3 sets of sweaty bed sheets a nite. Are you wearing him out and maybe he needs time to recooperate in the morning? Why don't you try doing something less sexual in the morning like playing scrabble or chess? damn if i wanted that id play on me own:laugh: itsnot just mornings.. its him in general
Author sultry33 Posted June 25, 2009 Author Posted June 25, 2009 Don't let them get to you, their bikes are way more involved and expensive. With out one like they have, you will never be as fast. But good for you! Cycling rocks! OP? What is niggles? You titled your first post this way and it is a racial slur from my old neighborhood......I'd hate to assume something! Maybe you and Mr. New can get into couple's yoga? It counts as foreplay too! oops sorry was meant in this context [sIZE=3]nig·gle[/sIZE] (ngl) intr.v. nig·gled, nig·gling, nig·gles 1. To be preoccupied with trifles or petty details. 2. To find fault constantly and trivially; carp. See Synonyms at [COLOR=#1d4994]quibble[/COLOR]. taken off google we have kinda addressed the inital post.. just new stuff x
sally4sara Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 oops sorry was meant in this context [sIZE=3]nig·gle[/sIZE] (ngl) intr.v. nig·gled, nig·gling, nig·gles 1. To be preoccupied with trifles or petty details. 2. To find fault constantly and trivially; carp. See Synonyms at [COLOR=#1d4994]quibble[/COLOR]. taken off google we have kinda addressed the inital post.. just new stuff x Yeah, it makes more sense this way (not that it made sense the other way or anything; it had just been 20 years since I'd heard it at all!)
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