hazeleyez7 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 I just started dating a great guy about three months ago. I feel like I can trust him already and I feel he is very sincere about liking me. I don't consider myself to be a jealous person. I realize he will see other attractive women besides myself and thats fine if he looks, although I wouldnt expect him to be gawking, which he doesnt. However, when we watch certain movies together which have nudity or they portray women very sexually explicit.. I feel like its awkward watching that with him and almost even feel disrespected that he's watching it. Am I wrong for feeling this way or should I expect him to stop watching movies with nudity in them? How can I feel better about this? I haven't confronted him and he has no idea I feel this way but I dont wanna sound ridiculous to him. Please help!!
boldjack Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Haze, a fair number of movies today, have nude scenes in them. The producers didn't put those scenes in, just to embarrass you. You need to realize that many couples are watching those movies and and dont' take them personally, relax and enjoy.
workingman Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 If it makes you uncomfortable, he probably doesn't realize. to put it in perspective, - is he commenting on said films during these scenes? Is he actively pleasuring himself? I any of this starting to seem far fetched?
Author hazeleyez7 Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 Okay so maybe I do need to relax and enjoy and not take personally. It's nice to hear feedback from others on how to handle matters. Thanks!
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