dudemag Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 it's been since january since my ex left me for someone else. its been almost 6 long hard months and im still not over the fact that i am alone. and that she chose him over me. we were together for almost 2 years, and she basically cheated on me with him and strung me along for a few weeks before breaking up with me on the phone. christmas night of all times. i know i shoulld be glad that she is out of my life because she is a stupid WHORE! but i miss her so much. she was the best thing that ever happened to me. she was so sweet and loving to me and we were together 24/7 like best friends and now i have nothing. so here i am 6 months later broken and lonely, and now not only do i have a broken heart, but also a swollen jaw and painful gums from my wisdom teeth extraction when does it get better for me?? i dont know how to cope with these emotions... i dont have anyone to talk to about my problems because im pretty sure my family and friends are pretty sick of listening to me whine about her... i know i would be too heh.. so here i am someone give me some advice! how do i fight the loneliness and how do i stop feeling so insecure about myself? i cant stop picturing her with him and it's driving me insane! i just want to erase her from my mind! kind of like in eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. that would be so effing sweet. ive tried everything from playing video games for hours, exercising like a madman, reading books, focusing in school (yeah right), and intoxication. what works the best?? from my personal experience getting wasted every night has dire consequences. also how the hell do i use this irrigation syringe in my gums from my wisdom teeth holes?
workingman Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 worst idea: Wallow in sorrow - you can spend all the time you want lamenting what once was, remembering all the sweetest times you shared and relishing all that is her; Better idea:you can stand up on your own two feet, turn the other cheek and never look back again. you're living the situation "what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger." take that to heart and have faith. The world wont end if you never see her again, I promise. You will feel for other people again, I promise. Stand up, grab your cohones, and be a stag for a while. you won't regret it.
TheBigCow Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Hey dudemag your story sounds awfully similar to mine, even a similar time frame. I was doing okay for a couple of weeks actually but I'm back to where you are as well. Its sucks when people are sick of listening to you. Well when I first came here I said that only one thing mattered to me, my ex, but I've got a revised version now, what matters to me is my ex and not hurting any friends and family. SO my current plan (haven't put this into effect yet) is to be drunk almost all the time, not really drunk just enough to keep your mind from thinking clearly. So I figure I will hide it from people so they don't worry and then whenever I feel at all down to drink quite a bit so I can just act like a dope around family/friends and they'll just think I've gone a wee bit loopy. Maybe mix it around with a different drug so I don't get alcohol poisoning, that'd give it away!
Author dudemag Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 awesome. what about my wisdom teeth dilemma?
TheBigCow Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Sorry you might want to go to a dentist for that. If thats not an option use some of the booze you get for the above plan and give your mouth a good rinse out with it (well.. don't waste it, just swish it around), surely that will disinfect anything? of course this assumes your drinking hefty stuff, 38%+ (or 76 proof) (hey our post count is the same! buddy)
sb129 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Boil the kettle and dissolve 2 teaspoons of salt in half a glass of the hot water. Let the water cool a bit, draw the water up into the plastic syringe and place the tip into the hole (I am assuming you have been given one with a bent plastic tip rather than a needle?) and gently flush the water out into the hole. Rinse and spit, repeat X2 and then do the other side.
Author dudemag Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 Boil the kettle and dissolve 2 teaspoons of salt in half a glass of the hot water. Let the water cool a bit, draw the water up into the plastic syringe and place the tip into the hole (I am assuming you have been given one with a bent plastic tip rather than a needle?) and gently flush the water out into the hole. Rinse and spit, repeat X2 and then do the other side. sounds rather painful. the jabbing the syringe in the hole part. and yeah my syringe has a bend on it...
Author dudemag Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Dont "jab" it, just aim it into the hole. Oops... Hope I didn't damage anything too bad
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