barbie_doll Posted October 27, 2003 Posted October 27, 2003 How do I get my guy of 14 months to be more considerate, romantic, and thoughtful. I may just have dream like expectaions, but I just want him to say sweet things to me, buy me things (they don't have to be expensive), and hold me. Am I asking to much? He did this stuff when we first started dating, but now we are like a married couple. I mean i love him like i always have, but hey a girl needs to be shown she's loved. How do I get him to do this stuff for me again?
monkey00 Posted October 27, 2003 Posted October 27, 2003 during courting it works great and everyone is satisfied..after that stuff starts going dry lol... well you could hint him whenever he's around or act..you know..like a grouchy princess who hasnt gotten her glass slippers yet lol. I think it should be enough for him to realize that he should compliment you more often
ncguy34 Posted October 27, 2003 Posted October 27, 2003 As a guy I can share some insight. Sometimes we do not realize we are not being romantic and when reminded we get defensive. You might try be subtle and get some links to sites or even some books. The problem that he is does not realize that he is not trying when he does not make an effort to do the little things. It does not have to be flowers everday but maybe an e-mail or a call letting you know that he is thinking of you etc. Be subtle not nagging. Help him-we can be kind of clueless.
Author barbie_doll Posted November 3, 2003 Author Posted November 3, 2003 Please, does anybody else have any advice? I don't know what else to try. He used to be romantic...etc., earlier in the relationship It's like he forgot how to be romantic, lol. Anybody got any advice?
Purrrfection8 Posted November 3, 2003 Posted November 3, 2003 Hi, in ur cutest, most endearing voice, just tell him 'Honey, I don't feel like ur being as romantic as u used to b... I used to really enjoy how u used to a) rub my back when I was tired or b) kiss me for no apparent reason, or c) do that thing u did when u did that thing u did"... U know what I mean? Don't make it long, don't make it too subtle, just short, sweet and to straight to the point... Otherwise, why don't u suggest going away for a weekend, somewhere different, away from everyday life, where u can spend time alone and enjoying things togetha? Purrrfection8
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