turtlerabbitd Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 It's been a month since I broke up with my ex-girlfriend. And now she starting to give me weird vibes. We had initially agreed to remain friends but now i don't know. So here's so background on my breakup. She was my first love. I thought I love her with all my heart. But she started doing small things that really annoyed me. She would complain a lot about who I was. She wanted to change me. Mine you, they won't bad changes. Actually really good changes. but There were two incidents that really got under my skin. The first incident she kiss another guy while drunk. Now, Okay she's drunk she didn't know what she was doing. Move on, Right? I swear I did. But the next time she didn't kiss a guy but given the opportunity she was. She wasn't drunk. She was smoking. Now, I got nothing against drinking but smoking is another thing. I had family members who at the brink of developing lung cancer from it. And I refuse to let anybody in my immediate family to smoke. And she knew this. Plus she was very controlling. I mean i did my share of the damage too. I wasn't there for her enough. I didn't drive. I wasn't a man. And I let her walk all over me. So when i broke up with her. She didn't see it coming and ask me why I was so cold. Should I be cold? I tired to be understanding but I think i give her the wrong impression. Wow that's a lot. Sorry for the length.
NopeNah Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 I just love the good ole " I was drunk " excuse! She's a cheater! Move on! You don't have to be cold, be done! No contact, have a good one! Kinda thing..don't look back. Just out of curiosity though...what was she smoking?pot,cigs?
motive2002 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 So be cold. Does it really matter now anyway? Sounds like it's all over, and any contact she makes with you at this point will only to throw everything back into your face so she can feel less responsible.. and make you the "bad guy". Don't play that little game. Just walk away.
Author turtlerabbitd Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 I just love the good ole " I was drunk " excuse! She's a cheater! Move on! You don't have to be cold, be done! No contact, have a good one! Kinda thing..don't look back. Just out of curiosity though...what was she smoking?pot,cigs? I been doing the no contact thing. but i feel like I'm jerk for doing it. I blame myself for being a jerk. She was smoking huka I think that's how you spell it and she was also smoking cigs.
Author turtlerabbitd Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 hey thanks Motive2002 for the advice. I am just your typical nice guy you know. just because I don't want to be with her doesn't mean I want to be cold. Who knows?
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