Xan Posted May 31, 2009 Posted May 31, 2009 Hi, im 18 yrs old, and i have never had a girlfriend till now and never really talked to girls much. but now im in a relationship and i am like..completely in love:love:. the problem is i cant ever think of things to talk about, if i do its something really dorky and gay...i just dont know what to talk about. lol. its kinda embarrassing:o in a way to come to this site asking for help but hey...gotta try something new . so any help on stuff would be good. thanks
dark1san Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 First off Xan welcome to the site, people are friendly here and don't feel awkward coming here we are all willing to talk,listen, and help. I was in the same boat as you were at one time, very shy not sure what to talk about on dates this and that. First off if she's laughing with you, not at you when you feel you're being dorky that's a great sign, she's really into you, if she's blowing you off not a good sign. Things to talk about with her, listen to things she likes, and talk about them, like for example her friends, what kind of music she listens to, if she likes to read, her hobbies basically. Show her you're interested in her life and what she likes to do, and talk about things you like as well, a woman loves to know what their man likes and is into. I don't remember ever mentioning my love of zombies to my gf but I must've spoke too much about them or something and she caught on and whenever she sees something with zombies or about zombies she thinks of me. Girls like having something that makes them think of their boyfriends whether it be a song, a movie, zombies. What have you. If they hear or see these things and think of their men, they are happy as can be. So share your likes and dislikes with her. And open you ears to hers as well. Hope this helped you out some friend.
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