loveshy Posted May 31, 2009 Posted May 31, 2009 I did all the begging... and pleading.... And mailing her.. This continued for 1 month.... and Now I have totally cut off... Has anyone ever got someone back... That he first did the mistakes and then went no contact and got someone?
hoping2heal Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 I had tremendous success actually. By going NC not only did I have the opportunity to realise that the person I was hoping so desperately would come back in my life, wasn't right for me; I moved on with my life and no longer cared wether he was in it or not. Then, after having moved on I met someone else, who is much more compatible with me and fell deeply in love, and now I'm very happy with someone who WANTS to be with me, not sitting around crying and sad over someone who doesn't.
robinincarolina Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. It does give you time to figure things out though. Never a bad thing. I went into no contact and I did get my guy back. I did not do any begging pleading etc. though.
NopeNah Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 I did NC only to realize that when she did come back I wanted no part of her. Its driving her crazy now. I don't wish her any of the pain I went through. But. From what I hear she's paying for her choices now.
redy2 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 i did no contact and we hooked back up for another 2 weeks before she split again. so now im back at no contact again. i say no contact for now but she is pregnant so i really cant do no contact. im just waiting on her to contact me and not contacting her.
bluewolf17 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 My success came in the form of relief. I no longer worried when/if the ex would call. I knew I wasn't allowed to reach out to him. NC also kept me from further emberrassing myself my trying to "fix things" only to have my hopes bashed. NC basically made me a normal person. It is hard at first. But I am about at day 19, and trust me, it gets better. And if your ex does come back, you will be in a better place emotionally, to make rational choices. Another benefit of NC? It makes your ex wonder what YOU are up to.
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