nowhereman82 Posted May 31, 2009 Posted May 31, 2009 Well two comments here... 1) Perhaps you are single and not married because you made GOOD choices in your life. Look at the number of people you know married because they got knocked up, or if they didn't have kids they would of separated already. Then look at the number of people who "settled" for their relationship because they were afraid of being alone or they were getting to old. Just keep faith that with all the great things you have to offer, you won't settle and you will find what will be hopefully a fulfilling relationship....or you can come to realize that the idea of marriage, life long relationships, and starting a family are starting to become worn down traditions that are forced down your throat by society and media and you don't have to go that route to have a full life. 2) I don't believe in "being too old". I am 26 and dating a 33 year old currently, and the last woman before her was 30. I find they tend to be a little more stable than woman my age and generally know what they want more. I can have open conversations and in the bedroom, things are a lot better. Yeah the fertility thing is an issue....but do you really want a kid or is that what you 'think' you want? If you want kids bad enough, there is always the option of getting a donor and raising the child yourself if you are concerned about fertility.
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 31, 2009 Posted May 31, 2009 You'll be in very good company, Open. We are all crones past 28. ****. I was hoping that since I'm still just barely in my 20's (29) that there was still hope. That sucks.
tinklebell Posted May 31, 2009 Posted May 31, 2009 Is it the age or how "old" one looks? I mean nobody asks someone's age when they first meet, do they?
anne1707 Posted May 31, 2009 Posted May 31, 2009 Is it the age or how "old" one looks? I mean nobody asks someone's age when they first meet, do they? Don't forget how old someone acts. You can be an old 20 year old or a young 50 year old. Age is just as much a state of mind as its is body.
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