twicebitten Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 Well, I've made it to 2 months!!! And you know what!?? I feel pretty GREAT!!! No more gut-wrenching feeling! No more waitin/WONDERING IF he'll contact me!! No more WANTING to reach-out to him 4 comfort (that he couldn't give anyway)! No more HIM ... just ME ... me ... me! I'm like a born-again-toddler!! LOL!!! Soooo, for ALL those going through NC-chaotic-hell ... hang in there ... it DOES get BETTER ... & it's WELL worth it!!! XOXO - TB -
Author twicebitten Posted May 30, 2009 Author Posted May 30, 2009 Oh, and this is after about FIVE other attempts of trying NC (but then going back for more GAMES/nonsense) after only a couple weeks inbetween!!!!!! AND even after he sent an email last W'end ... didn't answer ... didn't WANT to!! But I took it to the PD instead (read my other posts on that sitch)!! Sooo, I'M PROUD of myself!! And I'm PROUD of all others who are hangin' in there during their heartbreaks-from-hell!!! XO - TB -
Jdw_Icequeen Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 Hi there, I loved your post. I am only on 3rd day of NC. He kept calling me. I decided to make a real attempt at this NC thing, I would change my number, and did. Your post gives me great hope. Your at 2 months? How long did it take you to start feeling free? Is it just now that its been two months or did it start feeling better sooner than that. I am very happy for you and hope soon to be where you are.
Author twicebitten Posted May 30, 2009 Author Posted May 30, 2009 Thanks!! Well, I didn't actually know how much better I felt until last W'end (7 weeks NC) when I got his email!! YES, @ 1st I was shocked & un-nerved, but then throughout the day I realized that HE did NOT have the hold on me that he used to!! So, I guess it took me 'bout 7 weeks to feel "better"!!? WE had spent about 4 months in & out of NC ... back-&-forth, collercoaster-from-hell ride!! UNTIL I decided ENOUGH ... I DESERVE so much better ... & now I've found it ... ME!! Sooo, GOOD for you on going NC ... keep it up (@ times it's HELL, I know)!! But YOU WILL make it ... & be BETTER for it!! XO - TB -
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