MineThatBird Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 Without writing a giant wall of text, there had been a girl I had known for about 11 months; we met at school in a class we had together. Yesterday, she had declined what would have been our second rendezvous for coffee which is okay. What was NOT okay was to me, it felt as if there was no desired outcome with this girl. Most people would use others for money, sex, I was used for... I don't even know? This girl would train ponies and horses in her spare time. When someone would not leave me alone, I turned to her for advice and remember her saying: "Oh, I've dealt with people like that before and I train them very well not to talk to me unless I initiate a conversation." How do you feel about that?! Since our first outing, looking back on the situation I felt as if I was being strung along the entire time. I trusted this girl and felt comfortable around her. She knew my limits, knew how I felt about her, the hurt and damage she could cause and pushed anyway. I feel taken advantage of and violated that somebody would want to hurt my feelings purposely. I'm shaken up about this. Why would somebody want to treat me this way?
Trialbyfire Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 First of all, I'd like to thank you for not posting a wall of text and also, using paragraphs and punctuation! It sounds like she just wants to be platonic friends.
Bells Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 Without writing a giant wall of text, there had been a girl I had known for about 11 months; we met at school in a class we had together. Yesterday, she had declined what would have been our second rendezvous for coffee which is okay. What was NOT okay was to me, it felt as if there was no desired outcome with this girl. Most people would use others for money, sex, I was used for... I don't even know? This girl would train ponies and horses in her spare time. When someone would not leave me alone, I turned to her for advice and remember her saying: "Oh, I've dealt with people like that before and I train them very well not to talk to me unless I initiate a conversation." How do you feel about that?! Since our first outing, looking back on the situation I felt as if I was being strung along the entire time. I trusted this girl and felt comfortable around her. She knew my limits, knew how I felt about her, the hurt and damage she could cause and pushed anyway. I feel taken advantage of and violated that somebody would want to hurt my feelings purposely. I'm shaken up about this. Why would somebody want to treat me this way? Her statement actually reeks of how she thinks she's better than everyone else by belittling them by saying how she "trains" people do do what they do.
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