start-fresh Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 If you have to think twice about dating someone, does that mean it's never really going to amount to anything? I know this sounds dumb but some people say attraction can build over time while others say you need to feel that 'spark' from the beginning. The reason I ask is there have been a couple girls that I regretted not pursuing more, but at the time I thought I just wasn't feeling it and things fizzled out. Looking back I think they were great girls and get frustrated that things didn't work out. I don't really believe in 'the one' but for those of you that are married or heading towards marriage, did you know your SO was going to be something special shortly after meeting him/her?
Habeas Corpse Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 If you have to think twice about dating someone, does that mean it's never really going to amount to anything? I know this sounds dumb but some people say attraction can build over time while others say you need to feel that 'spark' from the beginning. The reason I ask is there have been a couple girls that I regretted not pursuing more, but at the time I thought I just wasn't feeling it and things fizzled out. Looking back I think they were great girls and get frustrated that things didn't work out. I don't really believe in 'the one' but for those of you that are married or heading towards marriage, did you know your SO was going to be something special shortly after meeting him/her? If it sounds stupid it's because it is stupid. Don't regret anything. Learn from it. Not pursuing girls who probably weren't interested to begin with is always a good idea. If she's attracted to you, she'll let you know. If you're attracted to her, you should know.
Mahatma Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 I liked all the girls I have ever dated from day one.
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