NoIDidn't Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 six years... being OW is only wonderful when you have that contact with MM...phone, text, email, meetings, etc. the lonely nights far outweigh the quantity of nights together... i dont know why anyone would ever purposefully desire to be OW??? ITS LIKE A SICKNESS...A DRUG YOU CANT ESCAPE...BUT THIS DRUG CALLS YOU, COMES TO SEE YOU, TALKS TO YOU, HAS A MIND OF HIS OWN AND KNOWS JUST WHAT BUTTONS TO PUSH... I DONT KNOW IF I WILL EVER FIND A CURE...ESPECIALLY NOW THAT WE HAVE BEEN IN THIS SO LONG AND OUR CHILDREN... The cure to it is his obvious bad treatment of you and your children. But you will have to see that for yourself. I take it you looked up trolling. I had to ask. We gets lots of stories similar to yours, and its usually a Troll.
Author nocontact2 Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 No, i didnt look up trolling... i got busy with our children and ive been unusually nauseated throughout the entire day today...hopefully someone will post definition for me... sounds more like its a word specific lingo to this forum...dont know that i would find it in a dictionary....
carhill Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Trolling has been around since the old BBS days on the internet, and in the real world before that. It probably came from a reference to fishing, since one who trolls baits a hook and drags it around, looking for fish to bite. Here's the definition from Wiki: In Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts controversial, inflammatory, irrelevant or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum or chat room, with the primary intent of provoking other users into an emotional response[1] or to generally disrupt normal on-topic discussion.[2
Author nocontact2 Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 thank you, no definitely not a troll.
carhill Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 OK, then my advice is to think long and hard about putting any personal information like this story out on the internet, especially if children are involved. In fact, I would suggest a special effort during your pregnancy to refrain from making any life-altering decisions. In the grand scheme of things, a man isn't that important, and I am one
joyz Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 i wasnt aware he was married until after our 1st child. i worked he worked so i never questioned. i'm just curious, how was he able to pull that off. did you get pregnant right away? how much time did he spend w you after work, and did he sleep over at your place?
Lyssa Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 ITS LIKE A SICKNESS...A DRUG YOU CANT ESCAPE.. "You're like a drug to me.... my own personal brand of heroin" Mannn I Twilight. Sorry for the T/J.
jj33 Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 Except in an A its more like Pink's song "Just like a Pill" "And i swear you're just like a pill Instead of making me better You keep making me ill. "
White Flower Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 failed at no contact... he said i will never love another man or feel for another man the way i do for him... he is right...he knows i wont ever be with another man, if not with him, i will just be single mom. i told him i wanted to see a therapist if we are actually over and he doesnt love me or our children, he only cares for us, he said i dont need a therapist i only need him...he knows how to make me happy.... every time he has called he has been very loving and asking about the children and me...telling me to kiss them from daddy and to take care of myself (pregnancy)... be patient....This is your first mistake. NEVER let a man think he'll be the only one in your life until he MARRIES YOU! You have given him way too much power. It is time for you to take some power back girlfriend!
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