icemann12 Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 hey everyone, so i talked to this girl for a while i met her a long time ago, and i just took her out on a date last night, it was an awesome time, we went into boston, out to eat, then to a bar where my friend worked after, and we were laughing and talking the whole time, she carried the conversation a lot, when we got back i gave her a hug and said i had fun, she seemed kind of weird about the hug, then after i left i send her a text sayin hey i really had fun tonight i hope you did you, if you want we should go out again, and she said yes i def did, and yes we should, so we made plans to take her son to see the new movie UP! on tuesday, and today i went with her to our local college where we both go to do stuff, and we were talkin and havin fun the entire time, then we got back and she kind of just walked back to the house with her son, didnt come near me for hug or anything which isnt a big deal, and i said so ill text you tonight or tomorrow about going to the movie on tuesday ok? and she said ok, then i said bye and left, im just wonderin, if she said she enjoyed herself so much last night and she wants to go out again, should i even be worried that she doesnt like me, or am i just a worrier cause i always do stuff like that, and shes a great girl, fun to talk to and i really would like to get to know her better, and her son rocks lol. help me out please, let me know if you need more details or something
lora22 Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 Not gonna lie, since you didn't bother with capitals, proper punctuation, and paragraphs to split up your fairly long post (not to be a dbag), I only skimmed it. However, from what I got out of what you said...it really sounds like you're only worrying over nothing. She said she had a good time, and you have a definite date for Tuesday or whatever day it was. So why are you doubting anything? Not everyone is physically affectionate (I'm certainly not with someone I only had one or two dates with!!), so if that's what has you worrying, just relax.
Author icemann12 Posted May 30, 2009 Author Posted May 30, 2009 lol thankyou. I'll use better punctuation now, thanks for the heads up!!
Trialbyfire Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 She might not want her son to see gestures of affection like that, since you just started dating. On the otherhand, I'm a little shocked that she made the intro so quickly, unless you knew her son beforehand.
Author icemann12 Posted May 30, 2009 Author Posted May 30, 2009 Nope i have never met her son before, I only met her at a party about a year ago, and havent seen her since, but we talked on facebook osmetimes. 2 Days ago she gave me her number and we texted for about 4 straight hours, and I asked her out, and Boom.
Admiral Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 You've messed this up. You're hanging out with her AND HER SON, and you haven't kissed her yet. Too early to meet her kid, especially if you haven't kissed/had sex. This is not going to be a sexual relationship. She isn't very attracted to you.
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