star87 Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 I met a guy on Monday at a club, we ended up chatting for a while and we went back to his place. We slept together, but in the morning we chatted some more, he insisted on driving me home too. In the car on the way back he gave me his business card and said to text him my number. So I texted it to him asking how his day had been the next evening. That was four days ago and still no reply. Anyone have any opinions? I thought possibly he isn't interested in more than a one night thing, but then WHY give me his number and tell me to text him mine if he has no intention of getting in contact ever again??? And if he was trying to be polite then surely he would ask for mine so the ball in his court. By giving me his number I could pester him constantly if I was a crazy bunny boiler type. I haven't texted again or anything, I don't want to come across as desperate, I just think it would be nice to see him again. Any thoughts/advice? Thanks.
Author star87 Posted May 29, 2009 Author Posted May 29, 2009 huh? so you want to stay in contact with a ONS? Well I wasn't planning to but HE suggested it first by giving me his number!
Trialbyfire Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 By giving you his business card and number, he found a way to get your number and also gauge your interest, for potential future booty calls. Pretty slick. He's an ONS. Don't invest anymore thought or energy into this one. It's only your pride that's hurting right now so let it go.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 By giving you his business card and number, he found a way to get your number and also gauge your interest, for potential future booty calls. Pretty slick. He's an ONS. Don't invest anymore thought or energy into this one. It's only your pride that's hurting right now so let it go. That's what I think as well.
icemann12 Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 well usually, and this is based off of first hand expierence, my friends are scumbags. with stuff like that, usually you wont get the answer, but there is always the chance that he has just been really busy or something, but leaving a ton of messages and phone calls can always just turn him off too, i know me, i like it when a girl shows that she wants to talk to me, so really its just a hit or miss thing, give him a call and leave a message speaking your mind, good luck!
lora22 Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 well usually, and this is based off of first hand expierence, my friends are scumbags. with stuff like that, usually you wont get the answer, but there is always the chance that he has just been really busy or something, but leaving a ton of messages and phone calls can always just turn him off too, i know me, i like it when a girl shows that she wants to talk to me, so really its just a hit or miss thing, give him a call and leave a message speaking your mind, good luck! Um, no....it takes about 5 seconds to send a text msg, even shorter to just reply to one. Being busy is not an excuse to not respond to you if he were interested, which he's not. ONS. The only reason he gave you his card and said to text him is because that was less awkward for him than just dropping you off and you potentially asking him if you were going to see him again. Guys are chickensh*it and he would rather lead you on like that than just leave it alone. Also yes, there's a good chance that he wanted your number to bootycall you in the future. This will not turn into an actual date or a relationship though.
Mahatma Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 He was probably just doing it so you didn't ask for his number.
Peaceandlove Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 This has happened to me- exactly the same way- the guy is an ambivalent twat don't waste any more time dwelling on this. Move on, go out, meet new ppl!
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