WorriedOne Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 My question is very simple: Girls, if you meet a man from Match.com, go on a handful of really good dates, and have sex with that man...do you consider it OK to keep logging into Match and communicate with other men? Or do you take down your profile and give this man a chance? I took my profile down after the 3rd date, I felt I wanted to give her a fair shot and didn't want to be distracted by others. She did not do the same, which is totally OK. But I think we might have sex tonight and I really do not want to have sex with a woman who is interested in continuing to play the field. Input?
Bejita463 Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 But I think we might have sex tonight and I really do not want to have sex with a woman who is interested in continuing to play the field. Input? Seems to me that the best course of action would be to talk to her about it.
lora22 Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 Seems to me that the best course of action would be to talk to her about it. Agreed. If I were on a dating website and had sex with someone I was dating...I would not continue to try to meet other men, but that's just because I don't have sex just for the sake of having sex. Who knows about her.
asuman Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Hey WorriedOne, whatever happened to the girl you described in this older thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t185003/?highlight=anxiety Don't worry I'm not cyberstalking you. I searched the forum for posts about "anxiety" and when I found yours, it felt like I was reading a post written by me. The girl I'm dating makes me feel exactly the same way, except my situation is only 3 months old and not 6. So, if you don't mind, can you tell me what ended up happening with the Fridge?
Graduate Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Once I had sex with a guy, I would stop seeing other men. I prefer to focus on one person at a time.
Lyssa Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 If I started having sex with someone I met on a dating site,I would take down my profile cause for me that means exclusivity. It will take me months to have sex with my partner and I'd only have sex after the exclusivity talk. So perhaps you might want to talk to her - you both could be on different page on this matter.
dreamergrl Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 If I am sleeping with a guy, then I'm not going to be dating other men. However - everyone is different, so this may be something you want to talk about before having sex.
bac Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 From what I know, people in late 30s and 40s on match.com do not stop looking for other people if they start having sex with someone. I am a female and I have seen only 1 man who was willing to delete his profile and he was 50 y.o. If you had sex only 3 times, it is not long enough time for match.com to talk about exclusivity. Typically, on match.com males are contacting as many females as they could and they are trying to get laid as much as possible. They are constantly juggling too many females. And females know about that. The relationships do not last too long. It could last from a few dates to 3 months approximately. It is mostly because the males can not help a urge to look for smth better out there. Anyway, some people have subscriptions for other dating sites. I have seen many males from match.com on adult sites as well. In these circumstanses there is no real point to remove the profile early in a relationship especially for a female.
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