debbiew1984 Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 are engaged to a guy for 2 years, he dumps you out the blue. When he breaks up with u he is cryin and wants space. you give him his space and you dont speak to him for 8 months and when u do he tells u he thinks of u everyday, looks for u wherever he goes, any song reminds him of u, he thinks of u when what would of been ur wedding song is played and said thats definatly our song, he still looks for u when he sees a car the same as urs and still hears u call charlie when he sees one the same (Charlie is a dog) and says its all good all good afterwards and he still has all ur numbers in his mobile and says he still has everything u have given him. After that night you dont speak again, but bump into him 6 weeks on outside his work whilst he is on lunch he is nervous and gets emotional, asks how u r and what u been up to kisses u on the cheek and hugs u tight when he says bye. Again u do not hear from him, but he bumps into ur best mate at a social club asks how u r, they tell him u have just had a operation but doing well. Again he gets emotional , shakes his head , walks of goes for a *** then leaves without saying bye. u then drive down the road, he is standing there staring at the car and when u get in line with him he starts waving, then stares as u drive on. What you u think is going on with him? Sorry its long, hope it makes sence xx
twicebitten Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 Sounds as if he has some MAJOR stuff going on internally ... inside his head ...!!!?? Have you ever ASKED HIM!!?? This is just a gut-guess, but my 1st instinct is to think that it's dealing with another woman!?? Most everything else can be talked-out, or at least explained better to the other partner!! But another W ... can not so easily! They feel too guilty ... too ashamed ... too torn ... too cowardly ... it's as if you're literally left hanging!!? Soooo, I would ASK (not that you'll get the real answer) but it may help YOU!?? Also, so hard & sorry to say, but you've just got to keep moving-on with YOUR life, etc.,! IMHO he's being a wishy-washy coward!! I've had this experience, I know it hurts like hell!! Take care of you!! XO - TB -
tigerstripes Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 stop analyzing and move on. if he wanted to be with you, he would be.
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