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i already unfriended him on facebook...but should i untag him and I in the pictures of us? or just delete them? i want him to realize im serious and maybe if he sees i deleted all the pictures of us hell see...

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delete them.

 

make sure that not only is he de-friended but he is also blocked from viewing yours.

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if hes unfriended...cant he not see my profile?

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depends on your settings. you can set them so only "friends" can see your profile or some of your friends can see the full profile and some can only see a "restricted" profile or you can set it so that your "network" can see your profile, or you can set it so "everyone" can see your profile.

 

go look at your security settings.

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Check your privacy settings to make sure only friends can view your profile.

 

I'd delete each picture. That's what my ex did to me and I knew it was serious. (That was his way of dumping me, along with changing his relationship status. Jerk.)

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i already unfriended him on facebook...but should i untag him and I in the pictures of us? or just delete them? i want him to realize im serious and maybe if he sees i deleted all the pictures of us hell see...

 

blocking him would be the easiest way to handle this.

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Yep blocking is good, means you can't see comments they make on mutual friends stuff and vice versa, fully endorsed by me.

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I deleted everything having to do with my ex -- fb, myspace, every email he ever sent me, all the pics of us on my computer -- the day he left. Blocked him from every means of communication. I figured that if he was done with me, he was done.

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I know it hurts but believe me, trying to show him that it's really over so he'll get scared is not the way to go. I know it's hard, too. Sometimes I think I'm doing it subconsciously and it scares me :o But I've recently realized it's not doing us any good.

 

So, speaking for the both of us... we should just focus on ourselves and our lives as much as possible. And when they slip into our mind as soon as we realize they're there, we'll kick em' right out!

 

We'll get through this together. Don't forget that.

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