SpanksTheMonkey Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 If a guy you have never hung out with before says that he wants to get together for a few drinks... is that considered a date? or what do guys just have drinks with female friends usualy... Thanks guys..
JohnnyBlaze Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 He's probably testing the waters; it's a pretty common 'trick' for guys. If he finds some chemistry between you two, he'll call it a date. If there isn't any, then it's just two people having drinks. Usually if a guy really does just want to have drinks, he'll do it with someone he hangs out with already - there's less worry of saying something that'll offend the other person (especially after having a few).
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted May 29, 2009 Author Posted May 29, 2009 He's probably testing the waters; it's a pretty common 'trick' for guys. If he finds some chemistry between you two, he'll call it a date. If there isn't any, then it's just two people having drinks. Usually if a guy really does just want to have drinks, he'll do it with someone he hangs out with already - there's less worry of saying something that'll offend the other person (especially after having a few). Really thanks johnny so hes fishing to see whats in the water you think lol... I just didn't want to take it the wrong way..
lora22 Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 He's probably testing the waters; it's a pretty common 'trick' for guys. If he finds some chemistry between you two, he'll call it a date. If there isn't any, then it's just two people having drinks. SO TRUE! Works for me though, if drinks aren't involved, neither am I
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted May 30, 2009 Author Posted May 30, 2009 SO TRUE! Works for me though, if drinks aren't involved, neither am I I can handle drinks heck I think drinks are great helps people loosen up I just hate bars Eh its a curse but they make me nervous as heck! Id rather grab a 12 pack and split it at home to be honest while watching a movie or game or sumthin.. But I think thats a little inappropriate for a 1st get together no guys how would you react if a girl suggested that?
tinklebell Posted May 30, 2009 Posted May 30, 2009 Or he could be shy and not want it to look bad on him if he says it's a date and you don't agree to it. So he plays it casual.
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