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I didn't exactly have a "breakup" because he wanted to start dating then changed his mind.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t190206/

 

I am really hurt and offended that he saw me as only good enough for the short term :(

 

I told him that I was fine and that I didn't care. In reality, I am crying for hours at a time every night :(

 

He really, really wants to keep being friends. He has scheduled 3 running sessions for next week for us to practice together.

 

It is really hard to pretend like I have no feelings about his comments.

 

Should I tell him that I was hurt that he brought up dating but doesn't see as long-term material? Should I just keep acting like I don't care?

 

Should I stop having any contact with him at all? Should I quit church and soccer? I am going to have to see him all the time at church and soccer.

Posted

Yes go in NC.... That means no contact..

 

He wants you as friends as a backup nothing else..

 

Don't tell him you are hurt... You need to be happy without him..

 

Continue your normal routine :)

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