Nikki100 Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 There is this guy i have liked for over a year now. We worked together and when i joined work, i was so attracted to him, he was hot and i was drawn to his bad boy persona. We started gettin friendly and started seein each other, but i ended it because i liked him so much and was scared of being hurt, and i knew he had other girls on the go. When we finished things, i did some crazy things to try and make him jealous, like text myself from a different phone pretending to be some other guy. Other things were constantly trying to make him jealous whenever we spoke. Whenever he spoke to a girl on the phone, i would automatically phone my ex or some guy to try and make him jealous. I can't stand to see him with other girls or for him to talk to other girls. I can't sleep thinkin about him, and just want to say to him how much i love him, but am so scared because i know he is a player and i don't want to let my guard down. I even used my b/f to try and make him jealous by asking him to meet me and my b'f for a drink. I love this guy so much, just think maybe it's best to cut him out my life. I have now left my job and moved away, maybe i should cut off all contact. Just don't know what to do!
Yamaha Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 I even used my b/f to try and make him jealous by asking him to meet me and my b'f for a drink. You're just a bad gf. End it with the bf and pursue this player so you can see what it feels like to be used.
solo_flyer Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 A=======B==========C==================D A = obsessive psycho girl C = normal, well-balanced attractive girl D = super-whiney needy annoying girl* B = you * Is a major fan of "Twilight"
Author Nikki100 Posted June 9, 2009 Author Posted June 9, 2009 A=======B==========C==================D A = obsessive psycho girl C = normal, well-balanced attractive girl D = super-whiney needy annoying girl* B = you I take it i do like him a bit 2 much then!
solo_flyer Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I take it i do like him a bit 2 much then! Whether or not you like him is not the issue... there is some underlying personality issue that is causing you to be over-concerned with how the opposite sex views you, especially when you are attracted to them. A person with a healthy personality has a high enough self-worth and self-esteem that they don't care about things like this. This results in a positive attitude that will cause other guys to become more interested in you if you have at least some decent level of physical good looks.
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