wow123 Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 Ex who dumped me asks for gifts back that (s)he gave to me months before the break up. Has anyone ever heard of this happening? Break my heart and then ask for gifts back? I am in shock! This after days of NC!
Jdw_Icequeen Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 Well its not that I haven't heard of it. It's possible after days of no contact it was a way for her to talk to you. I have found many exs just love the mind games for MANY reasons. Keeping the door open. Ego boost. Just to get a reaction. If you don't care about the gift. Don't show any emotion pretend you don't care and give it back. What I would do? Say you have takin enough from me and I'm not giving you anything else.
Author wow123 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Posted May 28, 2009 I gave no response. Didn't answer. Didn't call back.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 I see.. I kinda assumed you had talked to her not that she left you a message. Sounds good to me.
TaraMaiden Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 If they were gifts, she has no right to demand them back, if you do not wish to part with them. However, if you are holding onto them out of a sense of nostalgia and sentimentality, they are a bind to keep you from healing. I for one, would not return them, because she has no right to demand them, but I would also put them into a box, out of sight, out of mind and not evident as a constant reminder. Then, further along, you may feel ready to give them to charity, or dispose of them as you see fit. My way would be that. _/l\_
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