Benneh Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Thought I'd post up to see if I could get any advice! I recently met this girl and all was going excellent! We're roughly the same age and get on brilliantly. We were going to arrange to go out properly on during the week when I asked her about it and then suddenly said she "wasn't up for really being avaliable at the mo and it's all rather confusing and I dont want to remember about it all". I'm an easy going guy I just like to make sure anyone around me and of course myself are having fun! I personally feel that it would be unfair on herself and me if she didnt see how it went. This girl is really something, but I'm not sure exactly what to do about it all as she was extremely keen to start something proper. She mentioned her ex quite quickly and saying that she would love to introduce me to her parents as they hated her last boyfriend. Slightly odd I thought when we did not know each other that well. So all of it suggests to me that she was hurt quite not too long ago. Should I take it easy and once it's cooled down in a few more days ask her out for a casual coffee and get to know each other a bit better? Or should I back off totaly? Or anything else?
BCCA Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Sounds like shes hung up on her ex, and really only using you to feel better about herself. Let it go, completely. If you ask a girl out, and they say anything besides yes, its a no. DONT FALL for the 'its a bad time' bit, its total crap. If she cant say yes today, shes not going to, ever. Best case, you would be her 'friend' which is obviously not what youre going for. All you can do is walk away, and see if she contacts you. If not, there you go. If she does, you'd be one of the lucky few.
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