TroyNJ Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I'm still struggling with the idea of dropping 15 large on a ring, cheap bastard that I am. werd! lol
wow123 Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 How old are you and your ex? This can be an important factor in her not wanting to settle down. I was with a girl for 3 years and ended it when I was 24 because I felt like I never gave myself a chance to meet others and know if she was it for me. I tried getting her back about 6 months later and she said no. I was devastated as I knew I made a HUGE SELFISH mistake.
thegoodlife Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 She is your ex girlfriend for a reason...for many reasons actually. You should be glad you got out after 7 years rather than 17 years down the line. Of course it hurts and the feelings are still lingering and it's hard to imagine a life without her and compare a brand new relationship to a long term one. You just gotta give yourself the time and space away from her to realize this whole other part of your life that has NOTHING to do with her. As it stands, she's still so much a part of your life you're not giving yourself (or the new gf) a chance to even get past this. She sounds very immature. Like that's something I would have done at 14 or 15 years old. She wants to know she still has control of you and your feelings and wants all of your focus to be on her. She doesn't want you, and she certainly hasn't changed. She just doesn't want you to want anyone else but her. Her claiming all these 'changes' are merely just another mind game. Cut her out man.
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