gavroche Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 These boards are full of people(including myself) asking: 1. What does it mean if she/he hasn't called you in a few days etc. 2. I've been dumped, how do I get them back? 3. She says: she's confused, needs space, wants to be friends etc. I've learned that once a relationship gets messy, it's over. It means the other party has lost interest in you. They don't lose interest overnight, they distance themselves from you over time. The pyschology of rejection is what really gets to the Dumpee, work on improving your self esteem and put energy into why you feel so bad about being dumped, if you really think about this you will become stronger in yourself and understand why we waste our hearts and minds on people who don't care about us. Finally, he/she doesn't leave if they're happy and want to be with you, they leave because they have no feelings for you anymore. When you pursue them you will see how much they are verging on hating you.
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