gavroche Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 I've just split up a week ago from my GF, I reactivated my profile a few days ago on the dating site we met on and she has a new profile under a different name. It hit me like a train, I feel sick. Her Old profile hasn't been used since we started going out 6 months ago. I think she has the new profile a few weeks without a photo until yesterday when she put up a photo. Do you think the new profile name was used so I wouldn't see her or did she put it up after seeing mine? Her ideal man blurb is exactly what she said was the problem with me (seems pointed). Just need opinions. I've been NC for a week and don't intend contacting her or looking at the profile again.
Author gavroche Posted May 27, 2009 Author Posted May 27, 2009 Need some more info please Thank for reply, what info would you like? I got dumped. She was sending mixed signals a few weeks before the end.
Soul Bear Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Bro, Im sorry to say, but after reading your posts, you relationship was only 4 months.... If you are both having major issues in this short a space of time I would encourage you to move on. I know its not what you want to hear, but its the truth. That should still be the honey moon period (in my experience). If it had been 4 years, i might have said different. Obviously this one was not meant to be. Put it down to experience
VeronicaVry Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Delete your profile from that dating page and make a profile somewhere else. Do not contact her, do not cyber stalk her. It's the only way trust me. Hope you feel better soon. It sucks the first weeks of NC but you are too emotional now to be in contact with the one that put you in this pain you are now feeling. VV
Author gavroche Posted May 27, 2009 Author Posted May 27, 2009 Thank you all for the support. God, I'm sick sick sick. She was winding me down in the last few weeks and said she'd be off the dating scene for a good while. I kind of did put mine back up thinking if she saw it she may have gotten a bit jealous. Do you think this is a way of making me jealous or getting back at me (I know I disappointed her). Is she doing this out of a rebound type of action? Another thing is that after thinking a lot, is that I think I am really only feeling the rejection not love. This doesn't make the pain any less and I feel like I would like to talk to her and apologise for messing her around.
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