confusedcookie Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 so here's the thing, i mentioned in another post that i was trying to get some stuff and money back from my ex, and i thought the smart thing to do is to call up his good friend and ask. so i phoned his friend a few times, and he's willing to help me, but you know, guys will stick up for guys, and he keeps telling me that i should phone my ex myself, bc its pride that is keeping him from phoning me. i refuse, of course. then, i call him today and ask if he's gotten my stuff back. he calls me and swears on his family and grave that he's phoned my ex for a few days for like 3 times each but my ex doesn't return or answer his calls and last he heard he was sick. his friend keeps pressuring me to phone him bc he may answer my calls, blah blah blah. of course, it's only been 17 days since our break up, so i still care and worry over my ex, i thought he committed suicide or was in serious trouble, so i send off a quick text saying, "apparently you're friend phoned you, but you're not picking up. or at least that's what he is telling me. please phone him back bc he is worries about you".that was at 6pm. so i worry for the rest of the night. no text, and no call from his friend, and then it hits me, he has class on tuesdays (today). so i send a text telling his friend that, and said "f u c k, and you got me worried he actually died" at 1 am and his friend just said, "if you miss him, call him" , so my ex probably already phoned him back, and he knew my ex was in class. friends will always stick up for friends, i worried over nothing, they kept me out of the loop, his friend isn't helping me get back my stuff, he's pressuring me to call him myself, and worse is, my ex didn't even reply to my text... back to day 1 of nc... so mad at myself... shame on me... i feel like i got betrayed by them, do you know what i mean? i was genuinely worried for him, and at least his friend should have told me he was okay, or my ex should have replied to the text.... grrrrr.... lesson learned....
Jdw_Icequeen Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Ouch! Im sorry. You know I think its best you don't beat yourself up. 18 days WOW! I was having trouble getting through 2. I did change my number today though so I am going to try again lol. You made a little mistake, but come on now 18 days!! You should be proud of yourself. His friend is a jerk! You made a small oopsy. So lets not go back to day 1. Your still doing very well. Good luck too you!
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