SummerLady Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 My boyfriend has been divorced since 2003. We talk openly about our former marriages I am divorced as well. He had a serious girlfriend for 3 years after his divorce they did live together. He told me he broke up with her for a couple of reasons. First she wanted to have kids and he said he was always honest about not wanting anymore kids. Secondly she wanted to get married after a couple of months and he said he was not ready as he was just divorced and thirdly he was going back and forth with his exwife. He said when he and his girlfriend would fight he would end up with his ex wife, having sex and talking about getting back together. This was years ago. He said they tried to make it work again after the divorce but the same issues would always come up and reminded him that it was over. This happened 3 times during his realtionship with his girlfriend at the time and this is when he would move out as they would have fights. He said he has not been with his wife since then which would make it many years ago. Now of course I love the fact he is honest and open but now I am wondering is this something he may do with me? He says they are over. Do you think this is something I should be concerned about. Me and my ex were done from the day it was done. No sex no nothing. I have to say this makes me feel uncomfortable. I have not been divorced long and wanted your opinion. Thanks!!! Just being safe........
exasperated Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Do you have any reason to think that things are still going on at all with his ex-wife? or that he has any interest in them still going on? It sounds to me like it is in the past. Be alert but not paranoid. And if he is willing to be open about that with you, perhaps you could be open with him about how it concerns you that he would do it again.
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