LostInLimbo Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 After 13 days later of being dumped and 2 Txt messages from my Dumper, it had been building up inside me to reply, but I never did, as I felt I was strictly going to follow the NC Rule, as a tool for healing. I did however Break the rule, but felt so good after doing it and txt messaged my Ex, just letting them know that "I had taken sometime to think things over and agree'd that the breakup was bound to happen soon", as they had said it was before leaving me. I also said in the same Txt "and I will respect what you have asked for" and sent it off. It felt so Good to get that off my chest (but felt this may blow there ego up), and even though it was in the early hrs of the morning, I never questioned why I wasn't getting a reply, just like I said felt so good to tell them that, and I woke up to a reply of..."Good Morning" so do I continue the NC Rule? I actually feel pretty good not to get taken back in to the situation again, as I have before, or do I now reply to Txts, with a stronger will power, my only fear is I don't want that person to think I am chasing them and it was ok what they had done to me... Thanks For Any Advice...
robinincarolina Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Don't know the whole situation. Is he a good guy, do you want him back. If so then stick to the no contact. Actually stick to it period. Try to make it 30 days.
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