Ucece Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Hello. I've been with my guy for about 3 years now. We are currently living @ my mothers 4 the last 1 1/2. I love him but the situation is as follows. When I met him I met both him n his brother, at the x I didn't know it but they were selling drugs. When I found out that that was where his income was coming from I told him 2 either stop or I would leave him. He did it. But it became hard bcuz he has tried getting jobs n he hasn't been able 2 find a steady 1. When he does get 1 he works VERY hard. He has proven 2 me that he will change. BUT his brother hasn't. Whenever his brother begins 2 show up our plans start 2 get derailed. He'll go hang out with him n that's fine but then he'll leave 4 days he'll call me during that x but I'm getting sooo tired of his brother trying 2 get him back n off track of a positive life. I know I'll never take away that that's hisbrother but when I bring up that's he's not doing nething to get a steady job n his brother doesn't do nething 2 help him he sAys I hate his family. I love him n c so much potential but I'm getting tired of fighting about the same thing, n waiting for him to c that nothing is changing in his life because of who he's allowing to affect it. How can I tell him his brother is ruining what we have? Should I even stick it out?
TaraMaiden Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 ONE: He is weak-willed and blood is thicker than water. he is not worth the hard work, you cannot make enough effort for both of you. I would break up with him, unless this is the way you can accept your future going, for a long time.... TWO: Please don't use text-language here. Write in a way everyone can respond to. It's a computer, not a 'phone, so you're never short of space! _/l\_
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