elizabethw Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 after 3 years things were ended in a text message and an IM. 1 week later find out he cheated. 1 week after that find out im pregnant! What does the scum do but still claims he wants nothing to do with me and says to "take care of the problem". His girlfriend who he left me for finds out and dumps him but proceeds to go back out with him when I was no longer pregnant. After months of therapy from the break up and the subsequent weight gain he proceeds to come back into my life after no contact for months. What did he want .... what every single guy wants.. So silly me crawls right back into bed where I was and starts all over again. Now he wants what happened to be a one night stand sort of deal and sever all contact again. How can someone seriously be so sick and demented and enjoy mind games so much? I am sick of not knowing where I stand and what someone is thinking in their sick head. What does one do.. I thought I was over this crap I am out of therapy and I was doing fine.. And now this... What should I do? EMail his ex (the girl he left me for) and tell her what we did this past weekend? Or just walk away and deal with my emotions by myself again. I seriously think there needs to be a place to put nasty ex boyfriends so you never have to deal with them again and you can save other women from them as well. Any advice would be great!!! Thanks!!!
TaraMaiden Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 He is not the problem. She is not the problem. YOU are the problem. If he is playing mind games, it is because you have given him permission to do so. Nobody controls how and what you think, why you think it and when, but you. Move on, establish complete no contact and leave things be. He is not with you. Forget this mess and move on. You have no ties, right? So cut things loose.
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