dreamergrl Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 I'm so happy! D asked me to come over yesterday and hang out. I was a little nervous because of all the crap.. but I decided what the heck. So I went, and it was like perfect. I pulled in and he was sitting outside in the back, and I walked up and right away he puts out his arm to give me a hug. He said he has to run to the store for his grandma, so we do that. We pick up stuff to make smores and wood to have a fire later. We get back, he makes a snack, and we just hang out, joke around, play xbox. Watched a show on t.v., some cuddling and kissing. Then we go out for the fire and smores, and he brings his laptop out so we can watch a show while sitting by the fire. We go to make smores, but then he realizes he didn't have gramcrackers like he thought he did, so we just sandwhiched the marshmellows between chocolate. It started getting cold, so we went back inside. I fell asleep next to him. This morning I went to get going, he was still half asleep. I gave him a kiss on the cheeck, he turned around and asked if I was leaving. Puts his arms out to give me a hug, tells me to drive safe, gives me a kiss, and I smile and tell him goodbye. I felt good about the whole night. He was so easy to be around. None of the crap that has been going on was brought up. Nothing was complicated. It was fun and nice.
Kamille Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Yay! Glad to hear it too! Now, if I may be so bold as to put on my 'yogi' hat. sit down or lie on your back and do a little meditating exercise to appreciate this beautiful moment, and how good it feels. It's very simple: just take a few deep breaths (6-10) and enjoy the present moment. If your anxiety kicks in, you can remember that you felt good, relaxed and happy about the situation. the hope is that the meditation will help you keep perspective if anxiety takes over: you'll know anxiety is just one way to feel about the situation, and that relaxed and happy is another.
Author dreamergrl Posted May 25, 2009 Author Posted May 25, 2009 Thanks girls I'm trying not to get too giddy. But oh it was such a lovely night. I get those butterfly feelings in my belly.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Aww Dreamergrl, I'm happy for you. See what happens when you are patient? Now I hope you don't start acting paranoid again after this Just savor the moment and I'm sure he'll call you to go out very soon.
simon0707 Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Aw, really happy for you, even though I don't know the whole story. Sounds like you had a really good time. Wish I could know the feeling of meeting someone you can't get enough of. Goodluck!
Midas Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Sounds like you had a very nice time! Hope you have more just like it!
Author dreamergrl Posted May 25, 2009 Author Posted May 25, 2009 Thanks everyone! I think I will be having more good times I feel confident about that.
ruggy Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Sounds perfect harmony. Always good to see it going in the right direction.
Author dreamergrl Posted May 26, 2009 Author Posted May 26, 2009 He had gotten a phone call while I was there, and mentioned my name to whoever he was talking too, like he's already spoken about me. That kind of gives me a good feeling, does that sound dumb? It's just be a nice day. Having things positive. My anxiety isn't there. I know everyone tells me to let him do the plan making, but I found out my favorite band is going to be playing at the big music festival near by on July 3rd. I mentioned it before, but I didn't know it was free then. I asked him if he'd be able to take off for it, and he said he'd see what he could do. Would it be okay to bring it up again. He'd be so much fun to go with. Maybe I should wait a few more dates before I bring it up again? I don't want to be needy.
ruggy Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Wait a bit. Its still several weeks a way. If he asks what you want to do, that could be an opportunity to drop a hint on it too.
BobSacamento Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 The last thing I want in a new relationship is my whole next month planned out for me. Just wait and let things happen then you can get on his back.
Author dreamergrl Posted May 26, 2009 Author Posted May 26, 2009 LOL I don't want to plan the whole month out. Just that day. I'll wait a few weeks though. But if I'm going to ask him, I want to do it enough a head of time so he can make sure he has off.
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