Al454 Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 So awhile back, me and my g/f took a break because apparently I didnt trust her enough, and she though we should see other people. I think breaks are a waste of time, but I tried it. She Immediatly started seeing another guy, and always threw it in my face hiw much more fun she was having spending time with him than talking to me. So i stopped talking to her, and started dating. I was seeing another girl, when my ex called me outta the blue, and asked if I wanted to hang out. I figured why not. She got very jealous when she found out I was seeing another woman, and told me she still loved me, and that there wasnt a better guy out there. I really did miss her, but she hurt me bad. But it all just kinda led to another thing, and we wound up sleeping together. I broke it off with the girl I was seeing the next day. I knew I wasnt really over my ex and it wouldnt be fair to this girl to stay with her, and Im not a liar or a cheat, and even though we hadnt been seeing each other for long I felt terrible. But my ex continued seeing her new guy, and tried to make me jealous, so I ignored her again, did my own thing. Then once again, we met up. I knew that her new guy had ended it with her, and she told me he did. She said she thought I would like that, I told her it honestly didnt matter. And then I fell for the I love you stuff, and we were very close and intimate for a couple days, then she got distant. She told me she wanted to see me again, but not exclusivly. I told her that after a year and a half I though that was a dumb idea, but we tried it. She wound up getting loaded at a party one night, and told me she was taken advantage of. I call bull****. Then she told me that she wanted to see me exclusivly, and then two days later said she wasnt sure if she was ready to commit, and that she wanted to explore her sexuality. I told her that if she felt she needed to, to go for it, but that with this. I wasnt going to be her backup, and I knew i deserved better. And that I just wanted my **** back, and to stay out of my life, because we were living together, and I had to start all over. She told me that she would let me do it if i needed to and wait, and I told her thats your belief, your view, and that Im not like that. Then she broke down, cried, said she wanted to be with me all over, the whole story, and that she would be exclusive, because she would be happier in the long run that way. Now were together, but she still has her dating page up, shes still single on facebook, etc. And for the first time in a year shes on good terms with her other ex. Whenever I have an issue with our relationship, and try to calmly, and maturely approach it, she snaps on me. Its her way, or no way. And she wants to move back in with me in a month. Thinkin I should break it off for good this time, any ideas, suggestions, insight cuz im kinda confused as hell lol.
cabarc1 Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Yeah, u need to break up with her. She is going through a phase right now where deep down, she wants to be free but know she has u on the side incase it doesn't work out. Aslong as u are there waiting for her, she will never respect/appreciate you. U just need to let her go and work on becoming happy single before you jump into another relationship. She wants a break, give her a long one with NC. Give urself time to heal from it and if a year/2 years down the road she still wants to try again, u see if u still feel the same abouther. cause right now she is just not interested in being in a committed relationship with you.
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