Lucky_One Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 I just realized this was posted in "Dating" instead of Business Relationships. What in the world would this have to do with dating??
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 LOL ok. Like I said, I'm not American. In Canada it works different... that's fine. I didn't mean to come across snarky. I'm sorry if I did. I work nights, got 2 hours of sleep yesterday, have a very bad tooth that the dentist is jerking me around about by not pulling it, have had 2 beers. LOL I'm a little out of it.
carhill Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Would you report her for sexual harassment? Nope or would you take that as an invitation for sex and try to hook up with her later after work? Nope Next hypothetical
Glenn Quagmire Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Say you had a nice office job, and one of your attractive female employees, comes to work in a very short firm fitting dress. She walks pass you, and purposely drops something like a pen, and in clear shot view bends over and reveals to you that she has on no underwear. Would you report her for sexual harassment? or would you take that as an invitation for sex and try to hook up with her later after work? I would assume she wants my cock n' balls but wouldn't act on it* (I'm one of the few loyal guys left in this world). *Unless she was SUPER hot.
BCCA Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 I would think it was awesome, and if she was hot, I might see if she wanted to get drinks later. I'm single, afterall. As far as sexual harrasment, give me a break. Who wants to go down that road unless you have to? Its not like she walked into my office naked and said 'lets do it', and I think you would be hard pressed to find any guy who was seriously offended by seeing a woman with no panties on bend over in front of them.
Author MeaganRaye Posted May 26, 2009 Author Posted May 26, 2009 Interesting. Now, I know if a man happened to purposely reveal his penis, most women would report him in a second.
Lucky_One Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Interesting. Now, I know if a man happened to purposely reveal his penis, most women would report him in a second. What's interesting about it? Apples and oranges. Bending over to "accidentally" show under a skirt is totally different than "accidentally" keeping your zipper open and pulling your penis out of the fly. If I am wearing a skirt and walk over a subway grate that suddenly blows it up, I doubt I would be arrested for indecent exposure either, whereas a man would be arrested if he pulled his penis out walking down the street.
carhill Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 It just underscores society's perception of gender sexual roles. How about if the man had a boner in his nice wool slacks? Not much different than a woman's nipples showing through her blouse, perhaps? Erections of a feather flock together
BCCA Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Interesting. Now, I know if a man happened to purposely reveal his penis, most women would report him in a second. Puposefully exposing ones self is very different from accidentally having it happen. Women lean over my desk all the time, and I can see most of, if not all of, their boobs. Its not like they said 'hey, here are my boobs, take a look', its just a coincidence.
grogster Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Neither. I wouldn't feel harassed but, on the other hand, I'd find her too silly and desperate to date. I'd maintain a professional distance.
Hi.P.O'Crit Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 What's interesting about it? Apples and oranges. Bending over to "accidentally" show under a skirt is totally different than "accidentally" keeping your zipper open and pulling your penis out of the fly. Going commando in shorts can sometimes accidentally reveal the penis.
alphamale Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Would you report her for sexual harassment? or would you take that as an invitation for sex and try to hook up with her later after work? i wouldn't do anything except tell all the other dudes in teh office so they could get a sneak peek also
Author MeaganRaye Posted May 26, 2009 Author Posted May 26, 2009 What's interesting about it? Apples and oranges. Bending over to "accidentally" show under a skirt is totally different than "accidentally" keeping your zipper open and pulling your penis out of the fly. If I am wearing a skirt and walk over a subway grate that suddenly blows it up, I doubt I would be arrested for indecent exposure either, whereas a man would be arrested if he pulled his penis out walking down the street. In this story, it's done on purpose, it's not an accident. I don't know why everyone keeps saying it's a mistake, I said that the woman is doing it intentionally to get the man's attention. She bends over, in clear shot view of a man, to reveal her vagina. I even said that she purposely dropped her pin so she could do it
westernxer Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 In this story, it's done on purpose, it's not an accident. I don't know why everyone keeps saying it's a mistake, I said that the woman is doing it intentionally to get the man's attention. She bends over, in clear shot view of a man, to reveal her vagina. I even said that she purposely dropped her pin so she could do it Art thou the woman in this parable? LOL
Lucky_One Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 In this story, it's done on purpose, it's not an accident. I don't know why everyone keeps saying it's a mistake, I said that the woman is doing it intentionally to get the man's attention. She bends over, in clear shot view of a man, to reveal her vagina. I even said that she purposely dropped her pin so she could do it And how is HR going to prove that she did it on purpose? It is pretty hard to have your penis accidentally fall out of your pants, but it is pretty easy to accidentally show some breast or butt. "Oops Ms Director of HR, I am so sorry. It was an accident and I will never do it again." End of incident.
Author MeaganRaye Posted May 26, 2009 Author Posted May 26, 2009 And how is HR going to prove that she did it on purpose? It is pretty hard to have your penis accidentally fall out of your pants, but it is pretty easy to accidentally show some breast or butt. "Oops Ms Director of HR, I am so sorry. It was an accident and I will never do it again." End of incident. I think not wearing underwear in a miniskirt could be a good argument. She could get a warning that if it happens again, she could get fired. Still, you keep saying it's an accident when I am telling you that the woman in the story did it on "purpose", she wants to get attention from the man. And if its a man, he could just whip it out on purpose (I had a guy do that to me at a job, he said he had a big penis and whipped it out in front of me to prove it).
Untouchable_Fire Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 I think not wearing underwear in a miniskirt could be a good argument. She could get a warning that if it happens again, she could get fired. Still, you keep saying it's an accident when I am telling you that the woman in the story did it on "purpose", she wants to get attention from the man. And if its a man, he could just whip it out on purpose (I had a guy do that to me at a job, he said he had a big penis and whipped it out in front of me to prove it). Sorry if I missed it, but what was the point of asking this question?
Author MeaganRaye Posted May 26, 2009 Author Posted May 26, 2009 Sorry if I missed it, but what was the point of asking this question? I wanted to know if the men would take that as an invitation for sex, and if they would act on it . Lucky One is going off topic
westernxer Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 I wanted to know if the men would take that as an invitation for sex, and if they would act on it Only if I get to play the plumber working beneath the kitchen sink. http://www.theonion.com/content/node/33500
BCCA Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 I think not wearing underwear in a miniskirt could be a good argument. She could get a warning that if it happens again, she could get fired. Still, you keep saying it's an accident when I am telling you that the woman in the story did it on "purpose", she wants to get attention from the man. And if its a man, he could just whip it out on purpose (I had a guy do that to me at a job, he said he had a big penis and whipped it out in front of me to prove it). The point people are trying to make is that if it was reported to HR, she could say it was an accident, thus making it an accident in the eyes of the powers that be. Now, if this 'accident' happens 3-4 times a week, they might not believe her, but if it was once, Im sure they would accept that it could have been a mistake, and let it go. Very few guys are going to report this, though. If I can ask, why do you care?
BCCA Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 I wanted to know if the men would take that as an invitation for sex, and if they would act on it . Lucky One is going off topic I wouldnt say 'invitation for sex', but it would certainly lead my mind that way. Someone asking me to go have drinks with them alone is a bigger invitation for sex, in my opinion. Would I act on it - thats such a relative thing, its impossible for anyone to honestly say. If I found the girl repulsive, obviously not. But if she was hot, and we were both single, I probably would have thought about her long before seeing her exposed. That may have pushed it over the edge, but who knows.
Author MeaganRaye Posted May 26, 2009 Author Posted May 26, 2009 The point people are trying to make is that if it was reported to HR, she could say it was an accident, thus making it an accident in the eyes of the powers that be. Now, if this 'accident' happens 3-4 times a week, they might not believe her, but if it was once, Im sure they would accept that it could have been a mistake, and let it go. Very few guys are going to report this, though. If I can ask, why do you care? I get that. But my question wasn't whether or not it would be an accident in the eyes of HR, but if the guy would report her or try to sleep with her. I really don't care about how HR would view it really. I wasn't trying to steer the discussion in that direction If I can ask, why do you care why are you being so rude to me?
sxyNYCcpl Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 if the guy would report her or try to sleep with her. Were that to happen to me, I would simply pretend that it had not. I would neither report them, nor try to sleep with them. While my wife and I do invite others into our sexual lives, we do not "dip our quills in company ink". Unless we ran into a co-worker by sheer coincidence at a bonafide swing party we keep business and pleasure separated. FWIW, that has never yet happened. I join the others in my curiosity as to your intent with this line of questioning.
BCCA Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 I am not trying to be rude, I just dont understand what vested interest you have in what happens with this girl. I understand that its a desperate and skanky behavior, I just dont see how it effects you. Not trying to be rude at all, just trying to understand where youre coming from.
donnamaybe Posted May 26, 2009 Posted May 26, 2009 Negative. It only has to be unwelcome and sexual in nature. You're right. And I know many guys who would find that rather disgusting behavior and would be afraid to put any body parts into either orifice without two layers of tungsten steel condom.
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