willing Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 yeah, not sure how I'll feel when I see him (we both belong to a car club - thats where we met) and its likely that he'll be at the next get together in a couple of weeks!!!! Any tips? Yes, my best tip is to NOT see him again. That is the best way to safeguard yourself and steel your resolve not to crumble to his attention and charm. However, if you must see him again, then take steps to be unavailable -- take a man with you ... even if just a friend (MM won't know that!) and look hot, and do NOT look MM in the eyes (for your protection). If he comes up to ask you how you are, be cheery and happy and say fine, but do not go into details and move on soon after.... look over his shoulder, or at his nose:laugh: . Don't give him a chance to work his magic charms on you...
jj33 Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 And be sure you dont sit next to him. Dont go over to him to say hello. If he comes over to you, and you have to be polite, just excuse yourself after hello and say excuse me I have to go (get a drink excuse myself whatever it is). You DONT have to have a chat with him. if he says where are you going, just say goodbye and walk away. I do it all the time when I see xMM at functions. If he comes up to me, after the hello I am gone. There is no chit chat after its over. It can only lead to trouble.
White Flower Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Yes, my best tip is to NOT see him again. That is the best way to safeguard yourself and steel your resolve not to crumble to his attention and charm. However, if you must see him again, then take steps to be unavailable -- take a man with you ... even if just a friend (MM won't know that!) and look hot, and do NOT look MM in the eyes (for your protection). If he comes up to ask you how you are, be cheery and happy and say fine, but do not go into details and move on soon after.... look over his shoulder, or at his nose:laugh: . Don't give him a chance to work his magic charms on you... And make sure the guy you go with looks hot, too! A muscle-man should do the trick.
Author mercedesgirl Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 thanks guys, some great tips . I'll let you know how it goes.
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