pinkcrush88 Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 i had been talking to this guy, we are both 21, that clearly liked me. he found me on my friends myspace the morning after he met me, he wanted my cell number and he texted me pretty much every night. but then he stopped texting me out of the blue, but when i went to my friends house he said he wanted to hang out with us but he had work but when he came back we were talking online and i jokingly said i was gonna come over his house but he told me to come over. and he flirted with and i flirted back. when he dropped me off, he told me to call him the next time im over there and to write him online. so i wrote him online but he ignored me. so last night i got up the courage and called him to ask him if he wanted to hang out. when he answered, he asked me what i was doing and what not but he said he was at work but he went in the back to answer the phone. so he asked me if he could call me back but he never called. why didnt he call back? he didnt have to answer the phone but instead he did even tho he was at work. and he could have just said hey i gtg bye but instead he said he would call back later. and why did he stop texting me but still wanted to hang out? what should i do about this? just ignore him or confront him in person?
cbreitel Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Ignore him, because it's over. You don't represent a challenge to him anymore and it doesn't sound like he was all that interested in the first place.
mental_traveller Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 He didn't call back because he's just not that into you.
Asami Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 He didn't call back because he's just not that into you. I was just about to post that. I think if he was really interested he would have called back. He's the one who's missing out though.
lora22 Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Ignore him, because it's over. You don't represent a challenge to him anymore and it doesn't sound like he was all that interested in the first place. X2 As far as him texting you in the beginning and then stopping, it sounds like he probably just liked the attention for a time, then got bored or met someone else.
Mahatma Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Not interested. If my phone rings I know I do not have time to rush to the back immediately to pick it up, I would have to call back. He made an excuse. Move on.
robinincarolina Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Learn from this. Its best to leave the calling to them in the beginning. There are a million reasons why, but I don't, won't call men.
cbreitel Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 Learn from this. Its best to leave the calling to them in the beginning. There are a million reasons why, but I don't, won't call men. And as a man, I agree with this reasoning.
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