pandagirl Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 This is in reference to my earlier thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t189702/ To sum it up quickly: went on date, great time, heard from him the next day saying he had a great time, but no follow-up for the next date. After consulting many of my guy and girl friends, they all said I should just take the initiative and suggest another date. Which I did. On my original thread, most replies suggested I let HIM make the move, that if he was really interested, he'd just ask me out. While I agree with this, he did reach out to me indicating he loved being with me. I felt like it was my turn to reciprocate. So, I guess my question is, at what point should the woman initiate?
blind_otter Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 I don't think there are any hard and fast rules. You sort of feel it out based on the dynamic between you and your date and go from there. IME usually if there is a spark both parties feel it and are equally jazzed.
carhill Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Sure, you can initiate. Be mindful of how he reacts to it. IMO, don't make a habit of it. He should lead in the interest department early in the relationship...
alphamale Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 So, I guess my question is, at what point should the woman initiate? if he asked you out for the 1st date and hasn't asked you out for a 2nd within a reasonable time period then he's not interested....reasonable time period meaning 7 to 10 days max
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