ruggy Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Does this make sense? This woman asked for a call back, so I did. Claims she, after leaving me three VMs that she never received my call or VM. This is the second time it happened. It happened back in March too. Doesn't that sound odd? She has a pretty crappy cell from Verizon Wireless, but nonetheless, if you missed a call, it would show under missed calls. No? Plus, VM not keeping my message? Plus, she had said in the past she's called my phone and left VMs that I never received. Does this sound weird to anyone else?
filh Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 yeah it sounds weird. But you just gonna have to trust her for now
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Sounds like BS to me. I have a crappy Verizon phone (my 2-year renew is up) and I seem to send and receive VMs just fine - always have. I can't say, in my entire 7 years of using cell phones that I have EVER lost a VM.
Lyssa Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 A load of cr*p! I had a friend who used that on us and turned out, she was lying about the VM/texts. She just couldn't be bothered so she made things up so that she didn't have to feel bad about not calling back.
era Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Claims she, after leaving me three VMs that she never received my call or VM. She's a liar...
Author ruggy Posted May 24, 2009 Author Posted May 24, 2009 Figured. I don't know, something is really weird on this one. So secret at times and mysterious. Something is not right with the woman. Why make a stupid unbelievable statement like that?? What's the point? She also told me she's not gone out on a Friday or Saturday since March. I don't know, but that is a hard thing to believe.
Bells Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Does this make sense? This woman asked for a call back, so I did. Claims she, after leaving me three VMs that she never received my call or VM. This is the second time it happened. It happened back in March too. Doesn't that sound odd? She has a pretty crappy cell from Verizon Wireless, but nonetheless, if you missed a call, it would show under missed calls. No? Plus, VM not keeping my message? Plus, she had said in the past she's called my phone and left VMs that I never received. Does this sound weird to anyone else? Yeah, I don't buy the whole "I didn't get your voicemail" line as well. I call Shenanigans. What I find ironic with all these Great and NEW technologies, I find people finding less people are wanting to stay in touch. It's like with more communicative technologies....the LESS people want to use the. Remember when the answering machine came out? People don't use answering machines (or vm) to AVOID people (Screen calls) than to RETURN their calls.
Lyssa Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Why make a stupid unbelievable statement like that?? What's the point? Point is to not make herself look bad - somehow people like this woman and my friend - they think they'd never get busted. She also told me she's not gone out on a Friday or Saturday since March. I don't know, but that is a hard thing to believe. I think that may not be true as well. How can you not go out since March?!
Bells Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Point is to not make herself look bad - somehow people like this woman and my friend - they think they'd never get busted. I think that may not be true as well. How can you not go out since March?! Actually, she IS just making herself look bad just by saying what she's saying. They expect you to BELIEVE them when they say it. LOL I just look back at them and think, "Man, I can't believe she can look me in the eye and just lie like that!"
Author ruggy Posted May 24, 2009 Author Posted May 24, 2009 Says she's studying for her masters program @ Columbia U. I know she has not logged into her Match account since March or so too. However, when a guy wanted to chat it her, she offered to setup time to talk to him. It was a friend of mine who stumbled on to her profile. Not sure what game this woman is playing. Its just unsettling. I feel she is hiding something..
Lyssa Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Actually, she IS just making herself look bad just by saying what she's saying. They expect you to BELIEVE them when they say it. LOL I just look back at them and think, "Man, I can't believe she can look me in the eye and just lie like that!" I know! I just don't understand why my friend (this happened to me as well) couldn't just say "hey, I'm sorry for not getting back to you but I am now so.. etc etc". I would have accepted that. But by telling me she left VMs, sent texts etc which I NEVER RECEIVED... gggrr... just made her look stupid!
Lyssa Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Says she's studying for her masters program @ Columbia U. I know she has not logged into her Match account since March or so too. However, when a guy wanted to chat it her, she offered to setup time to talk to him. It was a friend of mine who stumbled on to her profile. Not sure what game this woman is playing. Its just unsettling. I feel she is hiding something.. If she's playing games then my advice is to lose her, Ruggy. It's not worth it.
Bells Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Yeah, ever consider asking them, "You don't expect me to believe that, do you?" Of course, you'll get the, "I can't help what you believe" line as well.
jerbear Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 Does this make sense? This woman asked for a call back, so I did. Claims she, after leaving me three VMs that she never received my call or VM. This is the second time it happened. It happened back in March too. Doesn't that sound odd? She has a pretty crappy cell from Verizon Wireless, but nonetheless, if you missed a call, it would show under missed calls. No? Plus, VM not keeping my message? Plus, she had said in the past she's called my phone and left VMs that I never received. Does this sound weird to anyone else? It is weird and I say ditch her. Says she's studying for her masters program @ Columbia U. I know she has not logged into her Match account since March or so too. However, when a guy wanted to chat it her, she offered to setup time to talk to him. It was a friend of mine who stumbled on to her profile. Not sure what game this woman is playing. Its just unsettling. I feel she is hiding something.. Well.... a MS at those schools are no joke. It is very easy to have no life when you're in one of those masters programs. Group projects with 20 people sometimes all traveling, own life, job, etc... Good luck trying to get on their schedule. Have you verified the number(s)? As in are you 555-1234? The coverage around Columbia U, not in the buildings, are very good. Anyway, it is unsettling and since she has not gone out since March, I would say she just does not want to talk to you or deal with you. So just let her be and move on.
Bells Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 It is weird and I say ditch her. Well.... a MS at those schools are no joke. It is very easy to have no life when you're in one of those masters programs. Group projects with 20 people sometimes all traveling Then she meets and starts dating a guy from the group of 20. lol Actually, college is the BIGGEST dating pool, and provides the BIGGEST opportunity to meet people. College is probably the ONLY time in your life you'll get the opportunity to date. I get a kick out of people (esp the younger girls or even guys) that say "I don't want to date, I just want to focus on my studies" In the mean time, the guy who just said that finds a cutie in his classroom and asks her to be his "study buddy" for the quiz coming up. LOL
jerbear Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 In the mean time, the guy who just said that finds a cutie in his classroom and asks her to be his "study buddy" for the quiz coming up. LOLYelp! Guess what, after college their issues are where to move to.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 24, 2009 Posted May 24, 2009 It's impossible to avoid going out in NYC. I mean I live in Queens, chances are I don't really go out in the city. But that doesn't mean I don't try to go to midtown or downtown, in fact, I can't wait to just go out to eat during the weekends. Especially if you're constantly on campus in the city. Like NYU has alot of students who are constantly hanging out and checking the East and West Village.
Author ruggy Posted May 25, 2009 Author Posted May 25, 2009 Yea, we'll a bit odd for a woman of 35 years. She called out of the blue today and left a few VMs. Said she was too busy to call me back since Wednesday, in which I was calling her back. She's hiding something and at this point, I really do not care. Regardless if she wanted to come by or go out, saying your too busy to return a call in four days is total disrespect. I have enough stress in my life. I do not need hers added on.
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 25, 2009 Posted May 25, 2009 That's alright, Ruggy - you didn't get any VMs anyway, did you? :laugh:
Author ruggy Posted May 25, 2009 Author Posted May 25, 2009 On the VMs she left yesterday, she said I think you called me back and I have been so busy I have not had time to call you back (for four days). Note, I only called her to return her call. She then txted me do you want to spend some time together tonight? She also, on the VM, said Saturday night, not Sunday night. Think she got the days confused. I really do not know what is so important. Obviously, it was not THAT important cause she waited four days to call me back. Though, today, she did call like five times. My phone battery died and was charging in the car while I was out. None the less, not sure if I would take the call. I mean, think of this. Stringing me a long since end of January (and yes I did date others in between). Have not seen her since March. She called a few times a week though to keep in touch. Heck, I do not even remember what she looks like anymore. But that is not the really bad part. We had setup four dates. Two she cancelled ahead of time, which is fine. Third she fell a sleep and txted me later saying what happened to our date. Fourth, on her b-day, even though I called to remind her of our date and to call me back, she didn't. I really do not know what is going on here. I question her motives. Does anyone really think she has not gone out since March? Does that make sense? On one hand, I would like to play out. On the other, I just think too many times have been burned. What is it to stop from happening again? Definite trust issues, and we've really only kissed and spent time on the phone. I would say she's looking for a friend, but her recent actions are bewildering. Plus, I don't like being a dick by just blowing her off. That is not me. But, its not like we've not had this convo before. When she fell a sleep for the third date, I said scianara, goodbye. When then made up. Don't know. Confused... Feel like I am back in HS.
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