Just thought id post this :)

[Peter_pan]

reporting good news. before you close this thread and read another one lol

 

well i have gone through old photos tonight by mistake and some had my ex in them which got me flicking through loads of oldies!

 

one thing i can say for sure is i now know i am fully over her!!!!!

 

and looking at past photos i no longer feel my heart being ripped out etc. I no longer get upset or wish for that back. i no longer feel regret or pain.

 

in fact i am glad it is gone and over and i am so happy i am out the other side. everyone here was right. you do come out of it and you can live on. i learnt an awful lot from it and i am thankful i experienced the re with her while it lasted. i cant belive i was suicidal thoughts at one time !! what on earth was i doing lol!

 

I have realized i was far too young and didn't have a clue what i was doing or how to handle what we took on.

 

I cant say i miss her like i used to. i know better things are to come. i know since the break up i have bettered my self in many ways and that i am happy for.

 

i know in my heart i will always remember her. and i know she is happy with her new man. and i think thats great

 

i certainly wouldnt want her being upset over me as i was over her lol!!

 

man its so great finally coming out the other side

 

 

 

so if anyone is still hurting. it takes TIME and that is a fact. it took me 1.4 years to reach it. which ironically is just under half the time i was with her.

 

 

cheers guys

[EmperorR]

Congrats Peter, I feel the same way now, I went on a trip for a week and it opened my eyes I had a blast being single and I'm back to enjoying my life. If something happens it does, I'm over both of my exes, what would hvae been the wedding day/ her birthday came and went and I did not care, did not shed a tear send a message just like oh shrugs and moved on. My recent ex called me when I was on vacation I did not even answer, I unblocked her from msn talked to her and I felt nothing.

[iBelieve In Symmetry]

I have moments where I feel this but deep down I know it's just me pretending and hoping I can convince myself of it.

 

After all the assurance from all of the people here on LS, though, I am making it through this as optimistically as possible. And hoping someday (soon) I can reach the stage you have reached! Lol.

 

I'm so happy for you.

[Peter_pan]

thanks guys

 

emp , spot on man, its a great feeling isnt it. its really strange actually in a way. after all this time of longing for them, missing them, the anger etc for it not to bother me anymore is AMAZING !

 

at i believe,

 

it is tough and i know what you mean about pretending you have moved on or trying to convince yourself. but know this...

 

one day like for me it will just click, you will just be over it. i understand that it takes months for some and years for others.

 

its an uphill climb but in the end you will be a better person and have so much more experience to offer.

you will LOVE just being you. and you dont NEED anyone to prove that to anyone else!

[Meaplus3]

Good for you Peter. Sounds like your letting go. So happy for ya.

 

Mea:)

[Lyssa]

Hey Peter, good for you! It feels good, right? I haven't been on here much lately but I read your threads and I am happy that you're able to move on from now on!